I really like this boy but i'm not sure if he likes me back.The bad thing is that he's 2 years older than me.I'm only in 7th grade he's a freshman in highschool.The worst thing is,is that it's my friends cousin.So is it right that i could have a crush on his cousin or not?
2006-12-27 17:55:16 · 17 answers · asked by Richelle 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Having a crush on someone is a part of growing up but don't let yourself pay so much attention to him that you miss seeing the person who has a crush on you that may even be your same age.
2006-12-27 17:59:17 · answer #1 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's completely ok to have a crush on a cousin. If they were siblings, it may be a bit awkward, but cousins are completely okay.
As far as the age issue, I'd say wait until you get to high school. High school is such a completely different atmosphere than middle school, and he's going through a lot of things right now that you aren't going to be able to relate to at all until you're at that level. Plus by that time, he'd be in his third year of high school, probably old enough to drive, and there's a lot better chance that he wouldn't mind the age gap.
2006-12-28 01:58:36 · answer #2 · answered by wnk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's perfectly ok. That happens all the time.
You're lucky. Your friend can be someone to give him messages from you or ask him questions about his feelings toward YOU.
Two years is not really much of an age difference, so I wouldn't worry about that at all.
Tell your friend how you feel about her cousin. She will probably find it fun to help the two of you get to know each other better.
Her parents could invite him and his parents( your friend's aunt & uncle) over for dinner one night and your friend could ask you to come over for dinner, on the same night as well.
It sounds fun and exciting.
Have fun!
2006-12-28 02:03:44 · answer #3 · answered by Molly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get you focus on you education and leave the boys alone. they will come letter. See you are confuse over an issue that you don't need to be. Education is so important and I can stress that enough, you are to young to worry about a boy..
2006-12-28 02:01:09 · answer #4 · answered by jakhiamylove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the seventh grade??...you should focus more on an education than on the boys at this point.
2006-12-28 01:58:13 · answer #5 · answered by boobear735 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nah, it wont work out, relationships in that age gap dont work, especially if kids in high school see this guy going out with a 7th grader....no offense
2006-12-28 02:10:00 · answer #6 · answered by Dancing Queen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes' too old for you at this point and time focus on school and im sure you'll have other crushes...
2006-12-28 02:06:16 · answer #7 · answered by photofan25 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter that it is your friends' cousin. You are a little yound though.
2006-12-28 02:00:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He only after your goodies be careful
2006-12-28 02:01:02 · answer #9 · answered by grtoo9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-12-28 01:56:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋