Well, we have been together for 2 years. Never in that time has he smoked Marijuana. Now that a long lost friend has come back into his life he has been smoking it, it is because of his friend. It really hurts me when he does this. I know that it's not good for you and I care a lot for him, but he doesnt listen to me when I say it's bad. When I'm hanging out with him and his friend they always end up smoking pot. He doesnt do it frequently, but when he is high he always tells me that he's sorry. I ask him if he feels guilty about it why does he do it? He just gets mad at me. I cant stand it anymore. He just tells me he's sorry so I dont get mad. What should I do?
2006-12-27 17:42:03 · 9 answers · asked by PrincessM 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dump him then.
2006-12-27 17:45:30 · answer #1 · answered by Delta Charlie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry you will be better off without him, my daughter had a similar relationship, he couldn't hold down a job, always paying off tick, stealing. The pot heads just lose sense of reality.
2006-12-28 01:54:33 · answer #2 · answered by polynesiachick 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think that if he really cares for you then if you talk to him about it while he isn't high he should understand and if he still doesn't and gets mad at you you should tell him that if he continues that your relationship could possibly come to an end and if he really cares for you he probably will stop or at least try or consider because he wouldn't want to lose you
2006-12-28 01:47:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my brother was dating a casual pot smoker and ended up having kids to her, she doesn't get out of bed now before midday and when she finally does she screams at her children. She smokes it now for breakfast lunch and dinner
2006-12-28 01:46:07 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is it causing him to not fulfill his duties to you? Is he cheating on you, or abusing you? Is he just having a little fun? Think about it. And please note the following:
Number of American deaths per year that result directly or primarily from the following selected causes nationwide, according to World Almanacs, Life Insurance Actuarial (death) Rates, and the last 20 years of U.S. Surgeon Generals' reports.
TOBACCO 340,000 to 450,000
ALCOHOL (Not including 50% of all highway deaths and 65% of all murders) 150,000+
ASPIRIN (Including deliberate overdose) 180 to 1,000+
CAFFEINE (From stress, ulcers, and triggering irregular heartbeats, etc.) 1,000 to 10,000
"LEGAL" DRUG OVERDOSE (Deliberate or accidental) from legal, prescribed or patent medicines and/or mixing with alcohol - e.g. Valium/alcohol 14,000 to 27,000
ILLICIT DRUG OVERDOSE (Deliberate or accidental) from all illegal drugs. 3,800 to 5,200
MARIJUANA 0
2006-12-30 17:23:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
dump him. somking pot is a illegal and also if that thing bothers u that much u should leave him. good luck and happy holidays.
2006-12-28 02:20:46 · answer #6 · answered by Joho 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get rid of him as soon as possible...all hes goin to do is bring that life to u and u deserve more
2006-12-28 01:48:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry dont make up on what he has done leave him and start a life of your own he has chosen his. in my opion?
2006-12-28 01:46:41 · answer #8 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why cannot you leave him alone. cannot he have a few pleasures in life. it must not be you.
2006-12-28 01:45:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋