it's easy getting a girl to go get a cup of coffee with me (or something along those lines) but I never know when I should try to kiss her. it seems like that "natural moment" never really comes along. I usually drive but it seems awkward leaning over the center console... and nobody really gets out and opens the door for the woman anymore, so walking her to her front door seems a little unnatural. I am totally and utterly clueless.
2006-12-27 17:37:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
so what get ur happy @$$ out of the car truck van whatever and open the door for her she might be surprised and then go up to the door or maybe just there... it doesnt just have to be at the end of the date... i find if you wait and if your close and normally she will give you a sign that she wont even realize such as looking at your lips or even if you feel butterflys or something like that just lean in a little tilt your head and u and her will noe if its a good time or not... dont do this with a whole bunch of ppl around normally in a wonderful setting... and you kinda feel it but with a kiss being so simple now adays its pretty much basic on the first or second date nothing past that depending on the basis of the date and how much flirting and stuff...
2006-12-27 17:44:31 · answer #1 · answered by me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if the moment doesnt come naturally, then either it is the wrong time, or you need to create the moment. You should walk her to her door. It wouldnt be awkward for her (because everyone likes a gentleman) and that would give you the perfect opportunity. There are plenty of other times also, like in the movie theater, or heck, even standing in a really long line to somewhere, lol. It doesnt matter where it is unless you really want to create the "mood". lol.
Really, if she is worth your time, she will appreciate any effort that you make to kiss her, as long as you arent aggressive or offensive, but thats just a given.
2006-12-28 01:44:57 · answer #2 · answered by Shelby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe that's the problem. Men have forgotten how to be gentlemen. A real woman still likes to have doors opened for her, and it is very good to have a man walk her to her door at the end of the date, it shows you care and want to protect her, and make sure she gets into her house safely. Be a gentleman, and I can almost promise you that at the end of the date you will have impressed her so much, you are sure to have a natural moment in which to move in for the kiss.
2006-12-28 01:45:41 · answer #3 · answered by guts_spunk_moxie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will know when it is the perfect time. In your heart. You may feel butterflies in your stomach. If you got a girl right now, the perfect time would be new year eve when the ball is dropping. You would both remember it forever. I hope this helps you. It should not feel awkward or unnatural. Do what your heart tells you.
2006-12-28 01:42:07 · answer #4 · answered by rottiegurl2002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋