I was at my friends house last week his a guy with know each other for ages he has a girlfriend they've been together for 2yrs and I have a boyfriend the other week we were sitting down in the living room and his like lets go into the bedroom to talk and im like i have to live soon he like just for 3 minutes and i was like i really need to go cus i was goin out. so he like ok so he walked me home and he keeps calling me wanting us to go out for a coffee but seriously who goes in the bedroom with there friend to talk ive known him for 2yrs this has never haoppened before so am i getting it all wrong or does he really have something to say.
2006-12-27 17:29:47 · 11 answers · asked by Ashanti 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just want to add for yall we were the only two in the house.
2006-12-27 17:35:01 · update #1
You already know what it is maybe you need to put a Lil space in between you. Normally I would say it's OK for friends to go in to each other bedrooms. I have this gorgeous female friend and we fall asleep in my bed talking and we have a lovely friendship. But your case has all the signs that he wants more than talking. You got it all right!
2006-12-27 17:39:40 · answer #1 · answered by askmeguru21 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might just want to talk to you about something in private, or he may have feelings for you. If you two are close you should talk to him and resolve this either way before it costs your friendship.
If you were the only 2 in the house, then maybe I would be a little suspicious...but if your are good friends you should just come right out and ask him whats going on. I know that this can be difficult and uncomfortable, but it has to be done to ease tension.
Good Luck :o)
2006-12-28 01:33:43 · answer #2 · answered by Lacey C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you should find out why he's buggin you all the time, coz only he knows the answer to that one. If you're really good friends, then you should be able to ask him what's up. As for talking in his bedroom, maybe there's nothing wrong with that... but be wary anyway. Just go out for coffee so that you don't have to deal with the bedroom thing again.
2006-12-28 01:53:45 · answer #3 · answered by someone in the world 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Were there other people in the house at the time? If so then i'd understand him wanting privacy if he did have something to say, but if you were alone then that's just weird. Not saying he wanted to rape you or anything crazy like that but just be careful. Meet him in a public place like a coffee shop next time and get him to tell you then.
2006-12-28 01:35:34 · answer #4 · answered by Principessa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has been your friend for 2 years you should know him well enough to be able to ask him straight out what is going on, maybe he actually does have something he really wants to talk to you about, but more likely his idea “talking in his bedroom” has nothing to do with talking.
2006-12-28 01:32:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he wanted some privacy. Since you have been friends for sometime its fair to say he trusts you, and maybe needs someone to talk to.
Why don't you go for coffee with him and find out. Only he can tell you what it is...
2006-12-28 01:33:55 · answer #6 · answered by loza500 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmm either his parents were out there or someone that he dint want them to hear, like maybe his Girl is preg and hes askin u for help or he wants to make a move... see what happens nex time.. if he makes a move get angry at him. he shouldnt do that
2006-12-28 01:32:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe he really does have something to say just give him one chance so u won't regret it later
i can c y u would be like uummm........ ok?
just make sure nothing happens
2006-12-28 01:33:47 · answer #8 · answered by sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him a chance to say what he gotz to say if its something u aint comfortable with then just leave
2006-12-28 01:32:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he does have something to say . . . just make sure he says it with his clothes on.
2006-12-28 01:34:00 · answer #10 · answered by morahastits 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋