2006-12-27 17:29:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he wants you for sex , he's using you
2006-12-27 17:30:25 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, a guy I really liked told me he didn't want a realtionship. Then he took me on a vacation. He said he didn't want to get emotionally involved, but he called every night. He said he didn't want to get close to anyone, but he took me everywhere he went and kissed me so passionately.
Now we live together, five years later.
It's tough to tell with ALL guys; some mean what they say, some don't. Some use code. Some are direct. Be very very careful; if you want to proceed, do so with caution.
2006-12-27 17:41:40 · answer #2 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of you are able to desire to think of appropriate to the relationship and contemplate whether you think of he may be the only which you truly decide directly to place the attempt into. you're in simple terms 20 there are various greater years in simple terms before you as much as now and meet others. in case you're struggling with so badly and in case you do no longer stay at the same time that could desire to assert something. you may no longer give up him from leaving it makes issues worse. adult adult males could desire to blow off steam each now and then greater effective if it grow to be faraway from you. additionally i think of he has some emotional issues perhaps he could get help in case you pick to maintain relationship him and make investments greater into this relationship decide on him. the way you're struggling with isn't healthful for you 2 attempt to speak it out save it calm. As for me I truly have been in a similar relationship it did no longer paintings out, yet I enable it go on for 3 years. while i ultimately broke it off for solid he would not give up calling and stated he grow to be sorry he might make me satisfied and can take place and wait outdoors my homestead all night. Creepy huh? It took a whilst and he ultimately have been given the clue 5 months later. So be careful love or infatuation will make human beings loopy. i did no longer stay besides the undeniable fact that it took me 3 years to discern it out. you will could desire to confirm if its worth your happiness to stay. contemplate whether you truly satisfied.
2016-10-28 12:57:56 · answer #3 · answered by dembinski 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Example#1 Hey call me later,...and he dont. #2 does he always have somewhere to go after making out? #3 does it seem he only calls when he wants something?..here is the truth,...if you think he is using you then he probably is. Always go with your gut feeling. Hope that helps and good luck.
2006-12-27 17:35:13 · answer #4 · answered by boobear735 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys tend to be pretty clear on what they want and don't want.
If he's not calling, not texting, finding excuses to leave or reasons to not see you that's a big sign.
In any relationship should be communication. Ask him if he wishes to still be with you, and ask him to answer it honestly. Then be prepared for his answer.
2006-12-27 17:31:54 · answer #5 · answered by ??? LadyBoyd ??? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If all you do is spread for him, he is using you. I'm not trying to be disgusting. There are a lot of guys like that. Be smart. You deserve better.
2006-12-27 17:31:29 · answer #6 · answered by Delta Charlie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on the guy....
But a huge red flag would be the 'money crisis'.
He might not ask you for money (that would be to obvious), he might just have this 'terrible problem' and if you loved him you would help.
DOnt do it.
If he liked you, he would not ask!
2006-12-27 17:32:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's really nice to you when your alone and not nice to you when you are out he only wants sex.
Trust me I do it all the time. Just kidding but I have once or twice.
2006-12-27 17:32:56 · answer #8 · answered by thorian 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well...if a guy flrits with a whole bunch of other girls that just means he wants like every girl to "FALL IN LOVE" with him another thing is if he doesnt really pay attention to you while your with him
2006-12-27 17:32:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesnt want to be with you all the times, but he doesnt say it directly. He doesnt want to introduce you to his friends. He always have some excuses. etc....
2006-12-27 17:33:58 · answer #10 · answered by dragon_2877 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i am not sure on what you mean by using you but if he is always wanting from you but never giving to you then i am guessing he is either selfish of yes using you
2006-12-27 17:35:34 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋