What should I do??? I am a really caring guy and there is this girl I like, We are both sophmores and have known each other a long time and we both know we like each other. She is mostly "anti touch " she was when I met her and for alittle while after. but we have grown closer and i really like her, but I think she will not like to hold hands or hug, and I respect her so I don't. even though I am a more touchy kind of guy. and I mean with everybody I always love hugs any time from most anyone.SO WHAT SHOULD i DO TO GROW CLOSTER IN OUR RELATIONSHIP. and I want mature answers, and please do not mention sex I am saving that for marraige.
2006-12-27 17:07:50 · 12 answers · asked by 1-4-all 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well if you really care about her it will be no problem for you to not do the touch to touch thing if she truly don't like it. Friends are a great aspect to a good relationship , if you want to move forward talking is the key for if you do end up together for a long time talking is going to be the most important thing you do through out the relationship.I know it's hard some times to talk but that's why allot of relationships fail, you two have been friends so it should come a little easier for you. Take her to dinner and just talk , you will see if there is room to grow more, and you never know , once you move on with it the touch might not be as big as a problem , but take that slow some women just never like it you 'll have to get use to it or not move on .
2006-12-27 17:16:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't really push it. Maybe she's just not a touchy-feely person. Or, you could try asking her about it. Say something about how you noticed she doesn't really like hugs and wondered why. And if she has issues or just doesn't like to touch, then don't push it. Grow closer by being a good friend, listening, and respecting her.
2006-12-28 01:14:05 · answer #2 · answered by BonnieLois 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her, tell her everything you just wrote. And take things slowly, you're both still quite young. You've got plenty of time, so continue to respect her wishes, while making yours known. She'll eventually come around. Be honest with her, she sounds like a keeper.
2006-12-28 01:13:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try lightly initiating a hand-holding session at the movies, just your pinky finger brushing hers... if she pulls away, then apologise and talk about it,
but if she responds, take it from there...
talking is a good idea for most things, but for some things, only the body can speak. this is one of those...
2006-12-28 01:14:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUDE! You want help with her!??!? Alright, man. I'll take her from behind while you get her from the front. AH! Actually, we should probably switch because my massive c0ck would probably weaken her resolve, while your toothpick d1ck would likely goad her incontintent a$$ into brown-staining her maxi pad she's likely told you she's been wearing for the last month. Take a big whiff, dude!
F4g!
2006-12-28 01:14:27 · answer #5 · answered by Jeff W 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First asker for her phone number......Then call her start talking about something......then after a bout a month or two .....we yall get know each other ask her out!!!!
2006-12-28 01:14:16 · answer #6 · answered by KiKi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good job man.
first off, i was kind of like that before.
but me and my hunny? LOL we talk about EVERYTHING. like EVERYTHING. and dont ask, but hes so honest and we have nothing to hide. so if you really kind of wanted to but was concernened about what she thought, then ask her. can i hold your hand?
i mean, how can you say no?
2006-12-28 01:10:20 · answer #7 · answered by SUNSHINE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just deal with it ? if you do like/love her , respect her so yeah i guess you have to change your ways like you like to hug and hold and yeah good luck
2006-12-28 01:11:05 · answer #8 · answered by anna_banana♥LALakers. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to address this to your girl. Is she your gf yet? Let her know that you NEED hugs and stuff, if so.
2006-12-28 01:12:15 · answer #9 · answered by navdeepkaur 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex, this is not a mature answer
2006-12-28 01:10:23 · answer #10 · answered by Chuck F. Answers 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋