How do I get guys to notice me?

Question

I'm a plain looking college student, I wouldn't say I'm ugly but I wouldn't say I'm pretty either, just plain looking and I was just wondering what are some good ways to get guys to notice me?

Answer 1

Don't dress like a slut but just start talking to guys and smile alot some guys will start to notice you and ask you out. Dont think about it too much, looks arent important if the guy truely loves you.

Answer 2

You want guys to notice you?
I got the answer to this one lol.

First of all, DONT act cocky and stuck up. Just be yourself. Laugh and smile a LOT. Guys like that.
Most of the time, guys turn their attention towards BEAUTIFUL girls.
Here are some GOOD beauty tips....

EASY on the make up.
You don't want to cake it on and look like a clown.
On a daily basis I only curl my eye lashes, put on cover girl mascara, and victoria's secret lip gloss. But for photoshoots, pageants, and special occassions I put on mascara, lip gloss, eye liner, and a LITTLE bit of bronzer on. *see, still not a lot of make up*

I TOTALLY think that LONG HAIR and BANGS look good.
Layers are DEFINATELY a plus.... maybe 3 or so and SIDE bangs, not bangs that go straight across your forehead. BUT if you have short hair, that's GREAT too! I just cut my hair and it's a little past my shoulders and I have side bangs. *In my opinion, and many other people agree too, my hair looks pretty good* It all depends on what you do with it.


Like to pin my bangs back when I go out so that my hair isn't in my face and wear pretty dangle earrings, that's really all the jewelry you need.

As far as clothes go...

A&F is personally my favorite place to shop, however, I know that sometimes it can get pretty pricy shopping there.
Aeropostale is inexpensive and really cute, and Ross and Target are cute too. Oh yeah another adorable store is Styles for Less... but I guess it all depends on what style have you. But whatever you do DO NOT BECOME A SKANK! lol

Now that it is getting colder you may want to consider getting scarves and puffer jackets and vests. I think that's really cute, with some boots. And if you curl hair that would look ADORABLE! :D
If you wear a white puffer vest wear either a hot pink long sleeve tee or a black long sleeve tee and a multi colored striped scarf. That would look really cute and classy but at the same time very conservative and warm. lol

If you have any questions or anything feel free to email me. My email address is [e-mail]

I hope that helped!
Take Care and Good Luck!
=]

Answer 3

The first thing that you should do is to remember that being yourself is the best thing to do. Other than that I would maybe try a new hairstyle or haircut. Maybe a tiny bit of fragrance would help things out also. If that does not work don't worry about it. You don't want to attract the guys for the wrong reason anyway. That would cause you trouble that you may not be ready for! Good luck!

Answer 4

put on some make-up but not too much and wear something that makes you feel the most attractive. Try to start up a converation with some guys and smile alot. Maybe they dont approach u because they dont think u are interested. Make yourself easily approachable and be fully engaged with what he has to say. good luck :)

Answer 5

Perfume is definately one thing that sparks a guys interest in you. Dolce and Gabanna:light blue is definately a turn on for guys and if they smell it they will say something about it
I always have.

Another thing that sparks a guys interest in you is for you to be very flirty and outgoing without being skanky. A guy loves to get attention from a cute girl and if you take care of yourself and are flirty, they will want to be around you more.

Answer 6

I think the best way would to be to not be "plain looking". Give yourself some style. Then comes the confidence. Take pride in yourself. You don't need to be trampy. Just find who you are, and run with it. Trust me, guys will take notice.

Answer 7

The most important factor which will determine your getting attention is YOUR DEMEANOR. Make sure you are aware of your surrounding, looking guys in the eye, smile at the one's that you find attractive or interesting and don't carry yourself look most other women who keep their nose up and look snooty.

Your friendly, warm energy will take you further than you think.

Also, dress nicely but not too nicely. Guys tend to be intimidated by the decked-out look.

Thanks.

Arkady Itkin
www.PracticalHappiness.com

Answer 8

there are many ways guy's will notice you..... Wear very short cloth's...... talk to very pretty girls, while walking shake ur a.. But c i dont think that's what you want...... if u r looking 4 true love just wait someone will come after you...... You dont have to make any changes in urself.... even though i dont know you i am sure you r a very pretty girl.... "SOMEONE SOMEWHERE IS MADE FOR YOU" he will come looking after you 1 day..... let's pray 4 that day 2 come soon...

Answer 9

Am sure guys notice but you just not aware of that? Anyway if you like someone you can start talking to him and am sure he would ask you out sometime but for that to happen you need to be open and friendly with him and then sparks will fly.

But if it is'nt friends you are talking about and if you just want guys to notice you, hmmm well try winking at them ;)

Good Luck.

Answer 10

Spice up your physical appearance! Try going to a department store that has a cool make up counter and ask them to demo different shades of make up! Also, you can go to a salon and tell them that you want to achieve a look that make people say WOW! Last but not least, confidence will turn head! Boost up your self confidence!