We are like the PERFECT couple. everyone always tells us were gonna be together forever. and stuff like that.
Im 19 and hes 17 and after a 1 1/2 of dating he breaks up with me cuz hes not ready for a sersiouse relationship. and im confused and hurt. and i really do love him. and i do want to spend forever with him.
So what do i say or do to win him back?
Any sweet ideas?
Btw he still does love me. He told my one of my girlfreinds he loved me but right now he doesnt want a relationship.
I love him. HELP<3
2006-12-27 16:36:10 · 11 answers · asked by FairChild 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know you are hurting... and I do understand..
But in the real world.. no one commits to someone at the age of 17. Why would you think that?
You where on here a few days ago about other girls flirting with him and you where jealous.. You did not want to scare him off!
Is that what happened?
You may win him back but it will only be for a few weeks and break up again.. However I really dont think he wants to get back with you... not because of you.. but because he is in no position to get serious.. and if that is where your head is.. then you two need to be apart!
I know this is not what you want to hear... However.. I am appealing to your mature mind.. not your tell me what I want to hear state of mind.
Pray for peace of mind.. peace for your heart and get busy with your life.. make something of yourself.. prepare yourself for what God has set for your life!
2006-12-27 16:51:44 · answer #1 · answered by Esther J 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, you should give him some time to identify himself before he agrees to have a relationship with you forever. He left you because he wanted to try many things, so he can have a good idea of what he should do next. By what he told you, he seems to want to get back to you after giving himself a break from a serious relationship which has lots of responsibilities. It's a good thing that he would want to have a break because that will make him miss you a lot which can encourage him to work harder on the identification of his identify.
2006-12-27 16:44:06 · answer #2 · answered by Mo M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi. i experienced once before exactly like yours. i totally broke down and i tried to get him back like sms him call him and get lots of attention from him. He told me he need some time to think and so i stopped all the getting him back ways and left him alone. As you said he still love you and mine too so mine really came back to me and ask for a patch up. so what you can do now is to let him know how much you love him no matter in writting form like letters or sms or email and say you will wait for him to come back since you wanted to be with him till old. He will come back to you eventually as he still love you. Good luck ger.
2006-12-27 16:54:44 · answer #3 · answered by star_dust 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing you can do. I know that's not what you want to hear. Give him some space and if he wants you back he will come around. Any attempt on your side will probably make him feel trapped and he'll run away. Good luck. :-)
2006-12-27 16:38:51 · answer #4 · answered by lola 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should give him a little time, if he loves you he will be back, what ever you do don't pressure him that will push him further away. A little pointer make sure when you see him, you always look your best, that will show him that you aren't focusing fully on him and he will look at you in good way. Never let men know they hurt you they will look at you in bad way.
2006-12-27 16:44:49 · answer #5 · answered by misti m 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can`t leed a horse to water if he doesn`t wanna drink, if he trully does love you he`ll be back. You are probably his 1st big love. He probably thinks the grass might be greener on the other side + if he feels trapped you might just push him right out the door. Just don`t loose him as a friend because that should be your #1 priority.
2006-12-27 16:48:41 · answer #6 · answered by grtoo9 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think you should go up to him and say to him that the relationship doesnt need to be serious and that you would do anything to help him see that,... even if it may not be true that you dont want it to be serious but im thinking that you would do anything to try and get him back so umm yeah just keep showing him that your still there and your not going anywhere!!!
2006-12-27 16:42:15 · answer #7 · answered by ChIkEtA GiRlS 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2014-08-18 08:05:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Emmm......'not ready for a serious relationship'?
Think about it,
Is he a one-night-stander?
Maybe he got a bad experience?
He need to plan and some space?
2006-12-27 16:41:20 · answer #9 · answered by Richee 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
He just needs time alone. When he is ready to be serious, he will probably come back to you (hopefully) if he is never ready to be serious, then he is never ready for you.
2006-12-27 16:40:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋