when i moved to a new school, i was hoping i'd get a better reputation and the 2nd day school started i'd already had a new boyfriend named A. he soon broke up with me saying "i don't want to look like a player here" and so after one month i'd already gotten another boyfriend named 'B'. he got too clingy and frustrating but he loved me a lot but then i broke up with him.. i could tell 'A' got jealous the whole time so we decided to hook up the next day i broke up with 'B'. but then i found out 'B' threw up the whole day and decided to keep A's and my hook up confidential. then soon he found out, i still don't know how and got mad. do you think 'A' still has a feeling for me? i mean while i was going out with 'B' i still loved 'A' a lot. but do you think me and 'A' will get back together?
2006-12-27 16:35:28 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am single right now you guys.. i don't know what your talking about
2006-12-27 16:40:39 · update #1
ahhhhhhh the joys of highschool wear makeups and break ups happen faster than soap operas or Jerry Springer shows....
SLOW DOWN! dont start dating someone the day after a break up... tacky.... and make YOU look like a player.... btw that was a lame excuse on his part. and of course someone you broke up with and then found out you are dating someone else the next day got mad..... makes it look like you were cheating... worry more about your grades and less about boys... the boys will come and go... your career will mean much much more.... and lead to man you really can be proud of who truly loves you.. not leaves you wondering..
2006-12-27 16:42:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well I Would Say You Don't Need To Hook UP With Another Guy If You Still Have Feeling's For "A" Cause That Wouldn't Be Fair To You Are The New Guy "B" How Ever If It Was Me I Would Wait For "C" To Come Along. You Have To Watch Out When It Comes To Thing's Like This! Are You'll Just End Up Playing With People's Feeling's And In The End Everyone Will Get Hurt! By The Way After Only One Month There's No Way Either Guy Truely Loved You! At This Age Guy's Don't Know True Love! It Is Just Puppy Love And Will Pass... Worry More About School And Grades! You'll Have Plenty Time For The Whole Boy Thing Later! Just Enjoy Life While Your Young.
2006-12-28 00:43:21 · answer #2 · answered by Dark Prince 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
At this age, boys don't know what the hell they want, I mean they do, but it's different from what we want.
It's a syndrome you describe where we all want what we can't have. You still love him because he was the one who broke up with you and he wanted you again when he couldn't have you, then when he could have you again, he hooked up with you just to prove he could.
Don't spend time wondering which boy you are going to be with, because chances are you will break up eventually, you still have plenty of time before you settle down and get married, right?
Pick the one who treats you best and brings out the best in you. Never EVER pick a guy for any other reason. And hey, if he didn't want you before thats his loss, why think about giving him another chance? From your question, it doesn't seem like A has given you much of a hint that he wants to be with you any more than your quick hook up the day after you broke up with B. If he wants to just hook up with you and not be your boyfriend, thats crap. I say just wait and see who comes around next and make sure he's a good guy.
It sems to me that you don't like B and that just goes to prove my first point about the syndrome, when he got too clingy you pushed away from him, but what if you saw him happy with another girl today and he was ignoring you, I'll bet you might get a little jealous.
Hooking up with someone the next day was a little soon (Ross) but do whatever you feel like now, you're still very young. When it comes time o be serious about a relationship, the best thing to do for yourself is wait about 6 months before startng a new one. I know 6 months seems like an eternity in high school (forgive my assumption if you're not in high school) so for now just wait a little longer to hook up with someone. This will give you enough time to clear your head so you are sure that you made the right decision, also time to figure out what you really want in your next relationship. Plus it won't give you room to break the dumped guys heart because the truth is, he wasn't mad that you hooked up with A, he was hurt.
2006-12-28 00:52:44 · answer #3 · answered by rockangel80 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like A was just playin games and if he broke up with you then I wouldn't get my hopes up to high. I would kind of cool it on the dating it sounds like its causing a whole lot of problems in your life. If you want to flirt and you should hang out with a guy so you kind find out if he's a player or if he's too clingy then you can decide from there if you want to officially date him. Don't commit right away, give yourself time to get to know the person that way no one gets hurt. Getting hurt is going to happen regaurdless in relationships but at least this way you can spare a few peoples feelings and even yours.
2006-12-28 00:41:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you should stop passing yourself around the guys before you give yourself a bad reputation and start concentrating on making new friends rather than boyfriends. Girls can be pretty harsh on girls that go from guy to guy. And if B found out about A, its because A told and blubbered his mouth to his friends, which guys also like to do so that they look good. Stop passing yourself around before your known as a sl*t (even if your not) because both the guys and gals will start talking. You are new in this school, you don't want it to start out this way.
2006-12-28 00:40:41 · answer #5 · answered by MRod 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Wow you move fast don’t you. But yeah its sounds like A. wants to get back with you hence the jealousy. But really you should let things cool down and play out and if you still like A and he likes you then hook up
2006-12-28 00:40:56 · answer #6 · answered by gotansas 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
u played A pretty bad and how can u love some1 only after a month? U're the player here and think about who u really long 4
2006-12-28 00:39:14 · answer #7 · answered by Diva L 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What a s l u t .
No wonder your reputation was tarnished at your previous school.
Pretty soon you will be the new s l u t of your new school. Two guys in less than a week? You have some pretty good millage inside you, girl!
s l u t s have to surrender the vagina to anyone they see.
They even look for one to give it to. They are beggers to vagina grabbers.
Are you one?
2006-12-28 00:38:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
you don't seem to know the meaning of love yet dear.
if you carry on the way you have been doing you are going to get yourself a bad reputation.
maybe you should focus more on making friends, not getting a boyfriend.
and 'A' probably just got jealous cos he didn't want anyone else to date you. i very much doubt he wants to get back with you.
2006-12-28 00:40:59 · answer #9 · answered by merihell75 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ok listen, you think that A still loves you? Wait a minute your going out right, so like how are you not back together?
2006-12-28 00:39:00 · answer #10 · answered by Sali 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋