So this guy is a teacher, and he's 40 and way hott. He acts really young, so I was shocked to find out he was 40! Is it weird that I still find him dreamy, even after I found out his real age?
2006-12-27 16:28:09 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I forgot to add that he is married and has two little kids. So obviously nothing would ever happen between us lol. That's like against the law lol.
2006-12-27 16:30:19 · update #1
I don't plan to do anything lol. I just think about him alot, and dream about him lol. He's just cute, that's all. I think he knows I have a crush on him, because everytime I talk to him my face turns red and gets hot, and I talk really retarded lol. But it's definitley nothing serious. lol
2006-12-27 16:46:58 · update #2
It is totally normal for you to have crushes at you age on older men as long as you realize that they are crushes, and you do. It helps you look for the traits that you eventually want in a husband or boyfriend...a model of what you would like to find for yourself in the future.
2006-12-27 16:49:51 · answer #1 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal to have feelings for an older man because he seems more mature than some of the guys in your grade. But DON'T take it any further than just a crush. It can be dangerous, and he could get in trouble or fired from his job if he gets involved with a student.
2006-12-27 16:33:10 · answer #2 · answered by Maddie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was in high school, I had crushes on teachers. It was much fun to talk about them with my friends. It's no big deal.
The big deal arises when the teacher takes advantage of such a situation. Shameful.
2006-12-27 16:37:30 · answer #3 · answered by Abby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not weird at all. Many students get crushes on their teachers. But just keep it that way... a crush. There are lines you should never, ever cross and this is one of them. Good luck!
2006-12-27 16:32:06 · answer #4 · answered by mJc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a major crush on Johnny Depp. A 14-year-old likes a 43 (44?) year old.
So, not really.
2006-12-27 16:36:33 · answer #5 · answered by Leafy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has crushes. Especially on teachers. Enjoy your crush but know that as far as it will ever go. It's fine to crush, but don't become too obssesive. Good luck.
2006-12-27 16:31:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not at all. My sisiter is 17 and she is getting married to one of her teachers in August after she turns 18. Hes 41.
2006-12-27 16:30:13 · answer #7 · answered by Ariel 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It isnot weird and very common but also very illegal. If you really like him imagine how you will feel if he ends up in prison because you wanted more from him than he is able to give you.
Think about the outcome.
2006-12-27 16:31:27 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not weird for it to happen, but don't let it go anywhere. Crushes are normal, but real actions could cause huge problems.
2006-12-27 16:31:10 · answer #9 · answered by enigmagirl5_2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm i think you should try spending time away from him and try searching for a boy friend because umm liking a 40 year old man is just WRONG no offence but yeah
2006-12-27 16:31:30 · answer #10 · answered by ChIkEtA GiRlS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋