wait till your married to have sex..
Or.
Test the waters.. if you know what i mean.
Explain your answere. thanks
2006-12-27 16:20:48 · 8 answers · asked by FairChild 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wait til you are married! They've done the studies and statistically it is true. People who have sex before marriage
The major consequences of sex before marriage include the problems of disease, premarital pregnancies, single mothers and fatherless children, and many babies murdered where they should be safest (in their own mothers womb). Since 1960 in the United States, 'out of wedlock births have skyrocketed 511 percent, and the percentage of single-parent families has more than tripled' (Human Life Review, Spring-Summer 2000).
"Every year there are more than three million new cases of STDs, and those affect three million teenagers,"
And those are only the obvious physical consequences, not the spiritual and emotional consequences - those are much deeper and much more costly.
A couple who has premarital sex is MORE likely to get a divorce and have relational troubles - not less.
2006-12-27 20:44:29 · answer #1 · answered by Bre 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definitely wait until you are in love and at least over 18 (just to be legal), and of course wear a condom. But I definitely think it is good to know what it's about before getting married, even if you are a woman. Of course some cultures are much more conservative, so, it's not like I tell anyone to go ahead.
2006-12-28 00:30:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a hard time with this one ... I always said I was going to wait until I got married.. but, ended up losing my virginity to my first husband before we were married. I think it depends on the person .. and their values. I think it's wonderful to wait... but, on the other hand what if you wait and it really , really sucks....... I know sex isn't everything... but, dang.... it is a huge part of it ... especially in the beginning.
2006-12-28 00:39:09 · answer #3 · answered by hthr34 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I didn't wait, although I always meant to...if it maybe helps the situation....I married my 'first' and haven't looked back or regretted once in nearly 9 years of marriage.
2006-12-28 00:24:26 · answer #4 · answered by Jen-Jen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait till your married.
i know that sexual chemistry, attraction etc. are important but it' would be better if you knew your partner well enough.
you are sure that you are willing to spend forever with him/her.
and it would be better bec. you are worthy and ready in some way.
get to know your partner first...if it's THE ONE.
and your sure 100%.
good luck with your married life. then you could have sex whenever you want..bec. it's with the person you love unconditionally.
2006-12-28 00:32:47 · answer #5 · answered by me_myself_mwah. 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think it's better to know what sex is like with the person you plan on marrying to see if it is what you want for the rest of your life. I don't think there's anything wrong with premarital sex.
2006-12-28 00:24:16 · answer #6 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why suppress a basic human need? Just so your wife to be can really wear white? That's presuming you are her first love. Sex is an important aspect of our lives. Why wait to enjoy its pleasures?
2006-12-28 00:31:56 · answer #7 · answered by Flab 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i say, practice makes perfect, u can impress ur significant other if u test the waters and get better at sex
2006-12-28 00:23:59 · answer #8 · answered by dbmistry88 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋