I love my son with all my heart. I don't even pay child support. What do I need to do.
2006-12-27 16:12:43 · 13 answers · asked by Lawrence H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
File with the court for visitation...
2006-12-27 16:20:52 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello,
I suggest that you tell your fiance that she needs to understand that is your son and you love him and want to be a part of his life. This isn't something that needs to be talked about or approved by her hun.
Your son needs you and besides there are enough children out here that are longing for their mother/father to be in their lives.
Tell her to put her big girl panties on and deal with it!
She has no right what so ever to demand this of you and how insensitive is this lady anyway! I personally don't like that one bit and you my dear why would you allow some lady fiance or not to tell you that you aren't allowed to see your son or can't see your son. You need to sit her down now and let her know that her demands have just been denied!
Do contact your son and spend time with him, they are only children for a short time. Don't miss out on him growing up and being a part of his ballgames etc because of your fiance/soon to be wife. Which I would think long and hard about dear!! No amount of love she could even think of giving you could compare to the love of your child and the feeling of knowing that your son thinks your simply the best dad ever!!
He's a child and need you and she's an adult or supposed to be and acting like a child herself.
Please take my advice and be with your son, spend time with him, have fun with him and enjoy these precious moments that before long will be gone as he'll be an adult before you know it!
Good Luck!!
ps tell that fiance of yours to grow up and start acting like an adult. I do believe she is scared your attention will be more on your son who is a child than her is the reason she is making such a stink about you being with your son.
2006-12-28 01:20:54 · answer #2 · answered by ssgtmommy01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but I don't understand this. Is your Fiance the father/Mother of your son? If Fiance is not the Father/Mother, and won't allow you to see your child - get rid of him/her!!! If Fiance is the Father/Mother of your child and is playing this against you so that you will marry him/her - get rid of him/her! Paying support is not the issue! The happiness and well-being of your son IS the issue!! You may need to talk to several lawyers on this issue!
2006-12-28 02:01:28 · answer #3 · answered by noonecanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from the way I read it you have a child with someone other than your fiance and she hates it, am I right? b/c she wouldn't be your fiance if she was the kids mom, you need to tell her your child comes first, and if she can't understand that she's not the right woman for you!
You need to pay child support!! even if its only $20 a week, its for your child not the mother!!
2006-12-28 00:50:47 · answer #4 · answered by pitas4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know all the other said try getting a lawyer, but some time it's not the lawyer job, to put some sense in your child son father head to let you see your son go talk to him tell him that every child needs there mother and your son need you as much as you need him and you will not stop until your heart your breath back that nine moth is not a easy think.
2006-12-28 02:24:23 · answer #5 · answered by celi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all pray. Don't let no man come between you and your child. If you don't love yourself then you don't love your child. Men come and go, but your child will always be there for you. Your child is a part of you. and if your fiance don't like your son then the probably don't like you. Your children are priceless.
2006-12-28 00:27:59 · answer #6 · answered by christina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A few questions here please. 1. why does you fiance not want you to see your son?
2. why do you not pay support for your son?
You have not given enough detail of the situation to give a qualified answer.
Twila
2006-12-28 01:15:00 · answer #7 · answered by Twila N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How is she your fiance? If she was you would be spending time preparing for your life together.
You need to go to family court and file a order for visitation. And she needs to growup and realize a son needs his father as much as his mother.
2006-12-28 00:20:43 · answer #8 · answered by mistyjlr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF your fiance doesn't let you see your child why r u with a person like that in the first place.your children come first no matter what.
2006-12-28 01:50:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not rocket science....GET A LAWYER FAST. they will be able to get some kind of an agreement set up so you would be able to see your son and set up some kind of support for him too. Good luck!
2006-12-28 00:19:16 · answer #10 · answered by redy2screm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of the fiance your kids come first, why would u want to be with someone like this anyway
2006-12-28 09:13:24 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋