so i need to know how to get the girl that likes me but has a bf but dosent like him but they been goin out to long so she doesent want to leave him
2006-12-27 16:00:59 · 22 answers · asked by kanecenawwe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to give her time. She probably does like you, but if she won't leave her boyfriend for you she obviously likes him more. It gets pretty confusing but if she truly likes you, give her space and she'll come to you. If not, then you'll know it was just a fling. Also, consider that she might just be getting tired of her boyfriend since they've been together for a long time. She probably saw something different in you and sparks flew. Sooner or later they will die out, so try not to get too attached to her. If you haven't talked to her about it already then try seeing how she feels about the situation, but if she keeps using the excuse that "they've been together too long to breakup," she still loves her boyfriend. Give it a little more time, and if nothing happens then move on.
2006-12-27 16:26:02 · answer #1 · answered by Susan B. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey!, if you like this girl, and this girl likes you, but doesn't have the courage to tell him or let go b'cause of their long relationship you have to help her understand and put her emotions in perspective. If she doesn't love him anymore she has to face it !and let her heart move her on. Prove to her why you are the best guy for her. Common, take a chance! only trying is how you're going to know.
2006-12-27 16:07:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't get her. you already said that she doesn't want to leave the other guy. also you never said that you like her but you only want her because she likes you. i don't think that's right. don't be selfish.
If you're going to steal her away from her bf, make sure it's because you like her too. but if not, spare her the misery of realizing that she's just into a 1 way selfish relationship with you.
2006-12-27 17:02:09 · answer #3 · answered by Coolitz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two things to remember.
First she is interested in you but can not tell her boyfriend so she is cheating on him even if nothing is happening. Are you sure she will not do the same thing if she leaves him for you.
Second. If she likes you then why does she not leave him. She must like him more and MAYBE just leading you on.
Sorry but JMHO
2006-12-27 16:04:31 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all if she didn't like him they wouldn't be together. If she is telling you that she doesn't want to break up with him because they have been together to long, she is playing with you she is trying her best not to break your heart. If i was you i would move on and try to get over her it will hurt a while but with time it will get better and you will find someone who is single.
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2016-12-01 06:09:05 · answer #6 · answered by gnegy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry Charlie. It's a drama waitin' to happen. It can go no where, but down. I suggest you let her know if she ever leaves him you'll try to be available.
You have to ask yourself, do you really want to be the "other guy"? Not a good role to play.
Anyway, if she likes you then you're probably pretty cool. You know what they say . . . "get your own box".
2006-12-27 16:05:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about this......
you want a girl that has a man already. you want her to break it off with him to be with you.
now what makes you think that she won't do the exact same thing to you with another man once you date her?
don't think you are special and she wont' do it....if someone will do it to one person, they will do it to another.
move on, respect the fact she has a mate. if she becomes single in the future then you take it up with her. otherwise its wrong to butt in and attempt to have her break it off with her current dating partner.
let alone how would you feel to find out some man was out there making/talking your woman into leaving you?
2006-12-27 16:04:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's up to her. There may be a thousand more reasons why she wants to be with him. She knows how you feel, if you truly want an honest relationship you need to let her make up her mind on her own. If you do convince her to dump him, she may resent you later. She needs to figure this out on her own.
2006-12-27 16:04:33 · answer #9 · answered by Principessa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Patience. I take it you're young. She is not going to put up with a guy that she "doesn't like" for too long. Don't push the issue - you don't want to be the "reason" they broke up.
2006-12-27 16:02:45 · answer #10 · answered by Avon Lady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋