my boyfriend moved to Texas and he doesn't like me going out. I have this group of friends that i'm always with it's a few guys and two other girls that i have known since before i met my boyfriend well anyways they invited me to do somthing on new years when i told my boyfriend he was upset and told me to do what i want i don't want to hurt him but i don't want to always be ditching my friends nither.
2006-12-27 15:58:19 · 7 answers · asked by Jojo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he needs to grow up baby .. he needs to face it u need your space too.. and u cant always be there just for him.. he needs to share you too.. tellhim to grow up ...and if he really loves you you would expect him to wish you a great new year's eve.. regardless of who you are with... note: check this out.. if hes like this right now when you are bf and gf.. imagine if you ever get more serious?.. no no no.. !!! talk about it with your friends they will tell you the same thing..and make you realize it aint right what hes doing~
2006-12-27 16:01:58 · answer #1 · answered by Dr. Truth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that they are your best friends. And if he still has some problem ask him why he doesnt like your ur friends..... And if you think there is no reason that your bf doesnt like them.... i think you should forget him(bf)..... coz i had lot of friends that where my best friends when they got a gf or bf they left us alone and after few days or few months after they broke up they have no one else but us & they came back...... WHENEVER U R IN NEED U ONLY HAVE FRIENDS...... LIKE THE PROVERB "A FRIEND IN NEED IS A FRIEND INDEED" If u think that ur bf is d best one for u i mean that he is d one u love a lot....then i would y dont u just talk to ur friends & tell them about how ur bf feels about them.... if they r good friends they should understand u...
2006-12-27 16:12:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to live your own life without the approval of your bf. What kind of life will you have if you do everything he tells you to? Your bf wants to control you and that's not good! You keep your plans with your friends and the plans with them there after! And, if your bf breaks up with you, at least you have a few shoulder to cry on! Personally, I would break it off with your bf and find someone that will let you go out and live life...not to be afraid of it!!!
2006-12-27 16:04:08 · answer #3 · answered by September Sweetie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is trying to control and manipulate you. Now it's just your contact with friends, soon it will be every aspect of your life. Run, don't walk, away from this relationship as fast as you can. Controlling behaviour such as this is one of the warning signs of a potential abuser.
2006-12-27 16:01:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell him to chill out and hang out with your friends anyway and if he still doesnt let you then he is not worth being with because he doesnt let you out with your friends but dont go out alot because he probably wants to talk to you but then again he mite be going out too so make sure he isnt and besides if you have a cellphone he can call but hanging out with guys isnt that great because that will make him think you would fall for one of them. if he is out then he shouldnt be with you because you dont know what is going on anyway you can solve it your own way but im just suggesting
2006-12-27 16:04:40 · answer #5 · answered by Gum Mo Jai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need to rethink the long distance relationship. You cannot stop living just because your bf moved away.
2006-12-27 16:01:21 · answer #6 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out with ur friends. dont diss ur friends for no one. always remember this when u break up with ur boyfriend who will u go to after this whole thing is over??? ur friends.
2006-12-27 16:02:37 · answer #7 · answered by superstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋