i dont know .....the guys in my life are all weird once you tell them you have feelings for them you lose a life long relationship should i still tell him even though i might lose our friendship?
2006-12-27 15:37:45 · 7 answers · asked by cookie monster! rawr! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What I find interesting is that you say "the guys in my life are all weird once you tell them you have feelings for them." How many guys have you developed feelings for? If this is something that you do on a regular basis, maybe the guys are right to get "all weird" and you should take a step back and analyze why you have this need to take your friendships a step further than might be good for either one of you, or before the guys are ready.
2006-12-27 15:47:44 · answer #1 · answered by letsgetagripalready 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough one. Love has always been a risk. And yes if you tell him you like him, it might end up in heartbreak, but then again it might end up with a happy relationship. Wait it out first, try doing little flirty things and see what his reaction is. If it's positive then build ur way up to telling him how u feel, if it's negative then maybe u should wait until he makes any kind of move. But unfortunately whichever u choose it's still going to suck. If you don't tell him, you're gonna have to live with the friendship and knowing that in ur heart you want more, but if you do tell him and he doesn't feel the same way about you, you're going to end up without a friend and really hurt. So wait it out and be careful.
2006-12-27 15:41:23 · answer #2 · answered by yleemoreno 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should try to pick between. If you dont want to lose the friendship, then keep your feelings to yourself but if your not comfortable anymore hiding your feelings, then go tell him. You might lose a friend but who knows, you might gain a life-long relationship. Go, good luck!
2006-12-27 15:47:41 · answer #3 · answered by Marge 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would zip it up a little. Most guys like a challenge. Once they think you are nuts about them the thrill of the chase is over. There is also a bit of - 'hey, if she thinks I'm so great there must be something wrong with her' going on. You remember the Woody Allen saying about not wanting to belong to any club that would accept me as a member? Retain some mystery. Good luck.
2006-12-27 15:43:42 · answer #4 · answered by peggy j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys are not like girls, you can tell them you have feelings for them, and if they do not feel the same way they will just keep on treating you the way they always have.
go ahead tell him, you have nothing to lose
2006-12-27 15:43:37 · answer #5 · answered by tigweldkat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. If you don't you might always wonder what could have happened. Love is one of those things that you need to take a chance with.
2006-12-27 15:44:17 · answer #6 · answered by dalbana5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
rather give them chance to express the feeling and enjoy
2006-12-27 15:40:07 · answer #7 · answered by shekharravi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋