Guys, Am I missing something here??

Question

This guy that I've been dating for about a month now has got me boggled.. He's 29, I'm 26. Things are great and yes we've been intimate. He then invites me to an exclusive Xmas eve family dinner.. I decide to go and Xmas eve I show up w/ his gift (nice sweater) and he puts it aside.. Finally, I ask.."Aren't you going to see what it is?", so he does, and he likes it.. he then proceeds to tell me that he left my gift at home so I'll have to wait. He seemed embrssd. I'm frustrated but I don't say anything.. then he goes on to say that he had 2 things in mind but that he might go back to exchange the gift he got me for another. But he brought all of his gifts for the fam. I meet his entire fam and they are great and they feel the same way about me. His sis even pointed out that I'm the 1st grl he's ever brght and he must really like me. Since Xmas, I haven't heard from him. 0. It's been 2 days. What's his deal? Why hasn't he even contacted me to say hi?? We usually at least txt 1x/day.

Answer 1

Look - this guy must really like you to invite you over to meet his family on Christmas eve. That's huge!!

But now, like most males, he's probably freaked out that he was so bold as to introduce you to his family. Also, he totally screwed up by not giving you a present. Give him a few more days. If he hasn't called you by New Year's eve, then call him yourself & find out once & for all what the hell is going on.

Answer 2

I'd say he's playing hard to get. He obiously likes you, but may be insecure about showing you off to his family. I'd say he's slightly worried that you'll think he's about to ask you to marry him, and therefore is trying to give you some space, to clear you of that notion.

Answer 3

i think he wuz embarrace because he didnt bought chu a present cause he didnt though u would buy hem something cause if he bought hes families presentrs n he new u were goin y would he forget urs n he didnt forgot hes famalies y get the picture