know how to tell her or ask her to go on a date because i'm nervous and i don't want to get rejected
2006-12-27 15:32:28 · 16 answers · asked by PimpinB_15 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Unless you ask her you'll never know. One thing that i wouldn't do is send someone else to ask her if she likes you. She pick up that you got the person to ask ker and it seems kind of pathetic. Jump in and ask her before its too late.
2006-12-27 15:34:26 · answer #1 · answered by Social828 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its worse to get rejected later when you come to a stage where you are madly in love with her and you really "think" she loves you.
It helps to be clear upfront and tell her how you feel rather than "assuming" things now and looking like a fool later. All I learnt all these years is that never "assume" things, just go to her and tell her what you feel. If she says she does not want to date with you, its good for you in the sense you can look for someone else rather than wasting your precious time . Who knows ...if things do not work out, somebody a lot better might be waiting for you.
Good Luck!
2006-12-27 23:41:08 · answer #2 · answered by arjun_tva 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do, don't be nervous in front of her. Girls need strong figures, despite what they tell you. You have to get your confidence, and be funny with her. Then, when you do ask her out, make sure you have something already planned, so you don't seem indecisive. Ex, "Hey, I think it would be fun to see the new Rocky movie this Friday, you should come with me . . . " or, I've been wanting to check out that new bar down the street, let's go for a drink on Friday after work (school).
Tell her what you want to do - be confident brother!
2006-12-27 23:36:07 · answer #3 · answered by J-Con 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her. Being rejected is something that we all have to go through at one point or another in our lives. It hurts, and sometimes pi**es us off, but we get over it and move on. I think it's better to be rejected than to always wonder what could have been. Go for it.
2006-12-27 23:35:11 · answer #4 · answered by SINDY 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem last year and it took me like all year to ask the girl, but finally i decided if i liked her that much i should just go for it or i would spend a long time regreting it. So i just asked her out, and she said yes. So go for it, good luck.
2006-12-27 23:35:45 · answer #5 · answered by ?I have a question? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think if you really like her though it would be worth the try of atleast asking.. i've never asked anyone out so idk what it feels like to be rejected. but if she says no, she wasn't good enough for you. just start up a conversation with her, and then ask her what she's doing on a certain day and if shes not busy if she'd wanna go to a movie or something of your choice.
2006-12-27 23:40:04 · answer #6 · answered by soccer loser0903 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody like to be rejected. But once in awhile we must take that chance. Sit down and tell her that you like her and you would like for her to go out with you. Good Luck.
2006-12-27 23:35:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well then, you can be assured you will not get rejected if
you never say anything to her ... so you have to either save
yourself from rejection, or take your best shot and hope she
likes pathetic cowards. Just kidding ... go for it.
2006-12-27 23:34:47 · answer #8 · answered by themountainviewguy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. Girls like it when guys come up to them and ask them out. Trust me.
2006-12-27 23:34:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't call it a date it is easier. How about this afternoon we go and get a soda? IF you aren't busy? That should do it.
2006-12-27 23:36:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋