Just so you guys know she was coming on to me first. And I started to like her. Well here's the drama enjoy :(
We are coworkers and I gave her a nice compliment saying I enjoy being around her. She said "that's so sweet." So as I left she went and asked one of my coworker friends if I had a crush on her. My friend said yes. She said well I think he's cute. My friend told me she thinks i'm cute so I went and told her that I have a crush on her. She said "that's so sweet. She gave me a hug and after we hug I told her I would of told her sooner, but you have a boyfriend. She didn't say anything about that really. So the next day she starts to flirt a lilttle. I didn't flirt back because she has a boyfriend.I gave this girl this note well here's what it said When we first talk and after the conversation was over I started to like you. So everytime when you talk to me I get butterflies and feel tigly inside. Also when we make eye contact I get nervous. That's why you see me not making too much eye contact with you. I enjoy your company. I still have a crush on you.When you told me you might get another job I was sad. You're such a sweet,kind, and caring person. Your very pretty.You have such a beautiful smile and it makes me smile too. You have pretty eyes. I can't stop thinking about you. Your always on my mind. If you don't like me the way I like you. I'll understand and we can just be friends. When I gave her the note she didn't read it in front of me she read it in away from me. She show all her co-worker friends the note and told them I like her. She never said anything about the note to me. When I saw her again I ignore her. She thought I lost interest in her so she said "You don't like me anymore" and walk away fast and look back at me and smile at me. She knows I still like her, but she has a boyfriend. We are co-workers and her boyfriend makes her come into work crying sometimes. I don't know why she stays with him, but she does. On Christmas Eve I gave her a $30.00 statue glass angel. I told her friend that the angel cost $30.00 and I guess her friend told her and I guess she freak out and told the manager about the situation. She told the manager that I like her and treat her different than other girl employees. And she also said to him that she just wants to be friends with me. She did keep the angel she just told her boyfriend that it was from a girl at work. She told that to my friend and my friend told me. I seen her today at work and she was freak out. She didn't want to be near me. She was pretty scared to go near me. I ignore her and didn't look at her or talk to her. She did the same. I know you guys are going to think i'm a loser for buying a $30.00 gift for a girl who has a boyfriend. I need advice about this situation. Do you think she likes me or not?
2006-12-27 15:28:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She sounds like she has a lot of insecurities, which is why she is soliciting the attention from you, going around telling co-workers, etc....
She's in a relationship already, whether it be bad or good, it's not with you. She probably likes the attention but doesn't want it to go any further, which is why she's backing away and playing these type of games with you.
Find someone worthy of your gifts AND attention. Good Luck!
2006-12-27 15:43:53 · answer #1 · answered by Blue Eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you both 12 years old, that's what this sounds like. You say you are co workers, yet you play little kid games. This girl is worth your time and she should be flirting if she has a boyfriend, this makes her scum. Also a good rule to live by if you like your job, do not date, flirt or get to friendly with coworkers...Your there to work not play....Another thing you should have never said what you paid for the angel, maybe she thinks she is worth more than 30 dollars and now you showed her she isn't...Stay away from her...
2006-12-27 15:59:14 · answer #2 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never fish from the corporate pond! I think you have scared her so you would probably be best to back way off and not so much ignore her but try and play things way cool so you don't end up in trouble at work too. As innocent as it may seem that note would have been enough for her to get you in trouble. Give her plenty of space. If she truley likes you she will get around to letting you know. Right now she is in a relationship and not to be mean but she probably views you more of a complication than anything, especially if she has gone to your manager. It's best to back off a bit.
2006-12-27 15:36:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't blame you for acting out on your emotions because you liked her, but you definitely need to stay away from now on. Continue to ignore her and move on with your life. She isn't worth the trouble. The girl is playing with your emotions because she knows how you feel about her. Don't take this one too lightly. She isn't interested and just wants some drama.
2006-12-27 15:45:00 · answer #4 · answered by artutina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW that was long...but here you go...for some reason she got freaked out and I would stay away. Its weird that she showed your personal note to everyone and now they are going to think of you differently.
I would forget her especially since she is already taken...her man may treat her badly but she must like it since she is still with him_
2006-12-27 15:38:48 · answer #5 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might like you, but she's playing games with you. It is so disrespectful for her to show other people the letter you wrote her. It's really hard to be involved with someone you work with anyway! She's not worth your time.
2006-12-27 15:51:45 · answer #6 · answered by saseebo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOT NOT NOT!!! Dude, get a grip....but good jub ignoring her. And keep doing it....you may not realize it but she is acting like a Bi*ch......and she's playing with your emotions too.
2006-12-27 15:37:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave it alone, i hate those skanks that play with you'r emotions
2006-12-27 15:35:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋