I haveing sister problems alot and i wish that i had friends to talk to about it i mean my sister she doesnt want to spend anytime with me. I mean today she made plans with me and then she said oh i changed my mind. I told her now i cant trust her becaus she lies... But i dont know what to do!!! Please help me...:) thanks yall....
2006-12-27 15:23:13 · 15 answers · asked by Allie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
get some friends/hobbies I wouldn't count on somebody like that, when you got friends u can go to the mall, or movies or skating rink, or something, just tell her forget it u don't wanna count on her if she's gonna ditch u everytime,
hope this helps
2006-12-27 15:27:37 · answer #1 · answered by Unknown Artist~ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Relationships with our sister's are difficult. They are our family, our siblings, our rivals on some days and our bestfriends on others. We are connected to them by blood. But remember, first and foremost, your sister is a human being. She is entitled to behave how she likes and make decisions that will suit her own life. However, if her actions are hurting you, you need to express this to her and set boundaries for yourself. She needs to know you are feeling disappointed. Don't expect her to read your mind. We are all entitled to make our own choices, we just have to realize that there are consequences to all of our actions. She may not know her actions are making you feel badly. She may be so wrapped up in her own crap that she feels she is doing her best. The bottom line is that you won't really know until you sit down and have a heart to heart with her. Good luck! (From one sister to another).
2006-12-27 15:35:05 · answer #2 · answered by helo_skarlett 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is it possible that she is ill in some way? I have had some issues with my sister. I understand completely. There could be some underlying cause. Did you have a fight? Have you lost someone close to you recently? I would try to think through some of these ideas before you com to the conclusion of lies. Here is a website that could be helpful.
www.newlife.com
Take care.
2006-12-27 15:29:36 · answer #3 · answered by Jennifer P 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well it sounds like from what u wrote is that ur sister lies and u cant deal with it anymore. so i take it that u sisiter is older than u. if that is the case depending on u guys age difference she probrably feels as if she cant relate to therefore she is not going to hang out with u. what u shold do is try finding someone else to hang with becuz u should not force anyone to hang with u. give her her space and move on with ur life. try particiating in a hobby that u find is fun and can do by yourself. thats always a plus.
2006-12-27 15:27:56 · answer #4 · answered by superstar 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunatly sisters can take advantage of one another... There is that unwritten rule that you will love them no matter what... Even if they are flakes.
I have an older sister who didn't want much to do with me. When we lived together, my sis and I never got along, never did anything together. When she moved out, we became so close.
2006-12-27 15:27:50 · answer #5 · answered by Jessica 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, what is her reasoning for not wanting to go with you..Is she older...these are things that sisters go through. Don't think that you can't trust her ask her what is wrong with her...Don't just assume that she doesn't want ti hang out with you, she could just be going through some probs of her own. and just doesn't want to be a bore to you while shes feeling what she's feeling...Thats your sis just talk to her
2006-12-27 15:27:43 · answer #6 · answered by Singer22 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie
You can’t expect your sister to act like your mom!!! She is still a child like you. She still have a lot of grow up to do. I wouldn’t get mad at her for that because you and her are going to be sisters for long times-like all your life. Get mad at her for something like that, then you have to stay mad at her all your life. If she would not lie to you about small thing like that, she will lie to you on bigger thing someday. One way of another, you can’t win any sister. Yours or anyone else sister. She is not capable to be perfect. She just a kid like you. Be nice to her and love her anyway. It would make you feel better about yourself. You can say to yourself that, I am not going be like her. I am go to be good to her. You will make it.
2006-12-27 15:48:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she desires a actuality verify. If she started getting sessions she should not be somewhat pissed off like that. consistent with danger she's having a annoying time at school or would not get alongside o.k. with friends.
2016-10-19 01:53:56 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You think that is a sister problem thats nothing compared to a lot of people including me and my friend sitting right here so stop complaining your sister made plans with you. you have no idea
2006-12-27 15:27:18 · answer #9 · answered by Leni ann 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You can choose your friends but the devil chooses your relatives! Spend more time with your freinds. Invite your sister to join in with you. If she does great..if she doesn't then it's her loss not yours.
Eventually she will grow up perhaps.
2006-12-27 15:30:39 · answer #10 · answered by Flab 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋