I NEED HELP I DON'T KNOW WHAT HURTS MORE. I DID NOT FEEL I HAD TO TELL MY EX I HAD BEEN WITH OTHER PEOPLE WHEN WE WERE NOT TOGHETER HE ASKED I SAID NO THINKING THAT IF HE KNEW HE WOULD BE HURT SINCE HE WAS SO MACHO, MY FIRST. I DID ALL TESTS BEFORE GOING BACK WITH HIM EVERYTHING NEGATIVE. A YEAR LATER I TESTED POSITIVE TO HERPES HE WAS NEGATIVE. I TOLD HIM I WAS WITH SOMEONE DURING OUR TIME APART HE WAS SO UPSET. BUT SAID HE WOULD STAY WITH ME WHEN HE FOUND OUT HIS RESULTS WERE - HE HAD SEX WITH ME AND THEN SAID EVRYTHING WAS TOO MUCH FOR HIM DROPPED ME OFF AND BROKE UP WITH ME. HONEST TO GOD IS THE FIRST TIME I HAD LIED TO HIM IN 4 YEARS OF RELATIONSHIP AND HE DIDN NOT SEE THAT. HE HAD LIED TO ME SEVERAL TIMES BEFORE. WELL THE OTHER GUY CLAINS NOT TO HAVE IT HE HAS A FAMILY AND EVERYTHING IS NORMAL EXPECTING A BABY. GOD FORGIVE BUT I DO HOPE IT SHOWS UP ON MY EX JUST FOR BEING SO SELFISH AND DROPPING ME SO COLDY. MY GYN SAID THAT EVEN IF HIS TEST IS - NOW IT MIGHT BE + LATER.
2006-12-27 15:19:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
pardon the cap it wasn't ntentional i'm not screamimg at anyone.
just recently he told my sis i cheated on him he wants nothing to do with me. how dare him? i never cheated he was the one dissapearing on me turning off his phone having misterious friends. i was totally committed i even took out a car loan for him i truly hate him and i need emotional support.
2006-12-27 15:22:56 · update #1
if you can't understand my pain please don't comment i am not well right now.
2006-12-27 15:26:19 · update #2
http://herpesrxfast.com/acyclovir.php
. Don't worry, calm down.. there is preventive treatment for herpes to where you may never even have another outbreak again.. http://herpesrxfast.com/ . Is the place you need to go. good luck dear.
2006-12-31 14:04:10 · answer #1 · answered by Nicky R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, your selfish. Feel sorry for the girl that is pregnant. If she gets it, it can hurt the baby. You are very selfish. And you cannot cure herpes either. But yeah. My kids dad couldn't keep his thing in his pants and supposedly slept with all kinds of people. I was pregnant twice and had to worry about myself and kids dad.
But you know something on your part.
He has someone and you maybe alone for the rest of your life for having something you cannot cure. And even if you take pills you can still spread it even without and outbreak.
So forth of your ex never wish bad on anyone it comes around harder if you wish and provike something than letting there time come. Just wait don't wish anything. And if he don't end up with anything he may down the road live your life cope the best you can. He's the dumb one for sleeping with someone if they know they have something. If he didn't know shame on you. You guys should have wrapped it and no one would be in this situation. Actually you can still catch it even with condoms same as other std's.
I would tell people now before you do anything. Even though I am sure no one will but you never know. I am not god.
Good luck anyways. You are going to be fine. I would be more devistated with the herpes. Not some jerks.
2006-12-27 15:37:08 · answer #2 · answered by mother of two 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got clinically diagnosed with herpes simplex virus (type 2) about four yrs ago, when I was still in college and had a foolish one-night stand. I understand a lot of girls say this, but I swear I had never done that sort of thing before. I just made a massive mistake that one time and suddenly I felt like I was going to have to live with the implications for the rest of my life. The hardest part was feeling I could never date other men again. In the end, who wants to go out with a girl who has sores round her private parts? But since a friend shared this video https://tr.im/HSkSF everything got better.
Not only was I able to remove all traces of the hsv from my body in less than 3 weeks, but I was also able to begin dating again. I even met the guy of my dreams and I'm so lucky to write that just last week, in front of everyone in a crowded restaurant, he got down on one knee and proposed to me! This method provided the opportunity to be happy and experience real love again. Now I hope that I can help others too by sharing this story.
2015-09-27 16:54:02 · answer #3 · answered by Kayleigh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One at a time my dear. Two wrong do not make a right. You have to own up to what you did and God will forgive you. Let him do what he needs to do because you can not make anyone love you. He will get would is coming to him one way or the other. Just think of you and the baby. Do research on the herpes and go ask your doctor how this will effect you and the baby. Good luck, God bless.
2006-12-27 15:28:35 · answer #4 · answered by newwingsfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A person can have genital herpes and not even know it.
Fact. The genital herpes virus can be active in a person's body even though they have no symptoms. That's why out of the 50 million Americans who have genital herpes, 90% don't even realize they are infected with the virus and may unknowingly infect others.
2006-12-27 15:29:14 · answer #5 · answered by dee_ann 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For starters..wishing he gets herpes is slightly callous. Okay, a lot callous. Herpes is treatable, however non- curable. This is a virus that stays with you for life. I hope you've gathered information on it. You realize now that even without an outbreak, herpes is still spreadable. This is not something to take lightly. You need to take responsibility for this and your actions. I hope you practice safer methods in the future.
2006-12-27 15:30:58 · answer #6 · answered by Massacre 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, forget about the herpes for now. It's just a virus..... only this one hangs around the rest of your life. Check out Antopia at http://www.mpwh.net/ . It has answers to your questions. It's mostly a nuisance. :^o
About you and your ex....it seems you're just two people trying to control one another. It's what we do as humans. Your relationship is over. You just haven't accepted it yet.....but I could be wrong
2006-12-27 15:38:39 · answer #7 · answered by David B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MARTIN- "That is so damn gross. Have you ever thought of going on Jerry Springer? "
HAHAHAHHAA....I'm sorry for whatever you're going through, but that was just too damn funny.
You shouldn't wish anything on your ex, but just as we all do, we blame when things aren't going right. It's normal, it's apart of our human nature. I think you need to take a break, and look at your life. You have major responsibilties all coming at you at once. Forget your ex. You have more important things happening right now. Remember to always practice safe sex. There are medications out there to deminish the herpes. They won't get rid of them, but it will help alot. I think you need to spend a little more time on yourself... I hope you find what you need.
-God Bless
2006-12-27 15:41:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He does'nt deserve to get herpes because of what he did. You should of use a condom. But herpes develop faster in girls than boys. so maybe you got it from him. then you can get mad.
2006-12-27 15:27:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is so damn Gross.Have you ever thought of going on Jerry Springer?
2006-12-27 15:23:22 · answer #10 · answered by BAKKUS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋