2006-12-27 15:16:09 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
because no guy ever meets a womans standards and the woman always wants to change the guy or they walk away from them. People need to learn how to appreciate their lovers for who they are and be happy with them as they are.
2006-12-27 15:19:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
The uncertainty that we all face in our lives at some stage. If you intentionally seek to have a partner that for a mate based on that alone you will be extremly fortunate to find a kind caring person who is interested in you. If on the other hand you build a relationship that is based on friendship rather than sex you generally have greater success.
To have a caring relationship you need to be able to relate to each other more than just sexually - the majority of facetts of your personalities must match. If you try to base a relationship on what the other person can provide you then it id doomed to fail - all relationships are a give/give scenario where everybody involved must make sacrifices.
From my experience I have found the harder I look the less I find that is worth evening contemplating as a long term mate.
2006-12-27 23:25:18 · answer #2 · answered by Ben 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is hard for either a sweet loving caring woman to find a real sweet loving man. I thought I had one but found out he was a scammer. And that hurt, because I am a sweet loving caring woman, And I can't seem to find someone like that. To alot of men it is the looks. They don't look beyond that. If you know of any men who would like a sweet loving caring woman let me know. I am in my fifties, and it is hard to find someone, who will like you for you.
2006-12-27 23:21:09 · answer #3 · answered by Andie F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer for that is that men don't care. I am 21 years old and never had a boyfriend in my life. I've had guy friends that seem very interstered, and out of no where, they put me down and move on. I am nice to them; well, I actually was, but I'm not anymore. It is not worth it, all men think about is sex, it's almost impossible to find one that cares about feelings or for the way a woman really is.
2006-12-27 23:27:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen, in a relationship between a man and a woman... it is very important that the two people are not alike... other wise the life will become boring and monotonous.... life will have a smoothness in the beginning but will become dull as the time progresses....
look at the person heart and what he thinks....
there are two kinds of personality you are talking about...
mostly women are sweet, cute and soft... but men are known to be hard and rough... this is how nature is....
2006-12-27 23:24:09 · answer #5 · answered by mitr_hamesha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Isn't it just a never ending game, I mean we go through life looking for that perfect or just right for me mate, we always think when will it happen or we want it to hurry up and happen. I read about these young adults actively seeking a partner and its kinda sad that we're all doing the same thing in one form or another,(seeking,looking, wanting, needing). I suppose its in our DNA to do these things.I do believe we will find what we seek if its meant to be though, soooo does it come back to ,ask and you shall receive, seek and you shall find? I suppose only God knows.I do hope you find what you want, but maybe you should look where you least expect to find that one so right for you. May a blessing find you.
2006-12-27 23:51:10 · answer #6 · answered by ret w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because most women are predisposed to finding those mates who are quite honestly a compilation of their fathers faults. (Nat Geo) Also, the bad boy syndrome and not to mention the fact that some women exhude an aura that scares most men shitless! Anything else?
2006-12-27 23:57:06 · answer #7 · answered by Sarab s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, but is better to be a alone than to just date for the sake of dating and be stuck with a loser, as a friend says, you do not need someone to make you whole, you already are, when you feel that way you will actually attract someone worth it :)
2006-12-27 23:19:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
because she isn't attracted to a sweet caring loving man, she wants a bad boy, she will turn a "sweet guy" down every time. she don't know what she wants but it ain't sweet.
2006-12-27 23:22:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
sure,, there are great guys out there looking for good caring sweet woman,
I suggest a couple of those dating sites, try it out for free,
2006-12-27 23:18:38 · answer #10 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋