My sister is 4 and gets ALL of the attention. Sometimes it is like I don't even exist. My mom always tells her how much she loves her but never says that to me. I know she loves us equally but I just want to know i that is normal and what should I do about it.
2006-12-27 15:08:21 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
4-year-olds can't help getting a lot of attention, they need help with so many things. They are also very appreciative of things you do for them (when they're not upset about something). So it's gratifying to spend time with them.
I know you don't want to become helpless like a 4-year-old, but how about being spontaneously appreciative and affectionate? Show that you enjoy what she does for you, tell her you love her, give her hugs. She may think it's weird at first, but she will soon catch on.
2006-12-27 15:42:47 · answer #1 · answered by The First Dragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit down and talk to your mom tell her your felling that u want her to pay attention to u 2
hope thiz hepls
2006-12-27 23:12:51 · answer #2 · answered by Janet ♥(YFFL) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell youre mum about it. I FEEL THE SAME WAY TOO..............
2006-12-27 23:20:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋