Why do people likes to "do it" so much?

Question

Why do they like to "do it"?
I mean,I've done it and I'm hate it.Last night my BF force me to "do it" with him.But I don't wanna,what can I do?....I think...
well......does it feel good? o is he just having a bad time and wants to relax...?

Answer 1

well..every one loves to "do it" but if u dont do it doesnt mean u r abnormal u just may not have a good mood .or have psyclogical thing..so try to solve this problem with ur bf or with ur doctor
but first try to ask urself why u dont like to do it

Answer 2

Hi there,
First off never let anyone, including your boy friend or anyone force you to have sex or do anything you do not feel comfortable doing. That is wrong and against the law! It's called rape! It does not matter that he is your boy friend it is still against the law!
Second, yes it should feel good but for some it does not. Some people do not like sex and some may find it painful for medical reasons. You did not say how old you are but for some women it can take a very long time until you are way older to feel comfortable having sex.
Until you are comfortable with yourself, your body, and your partner it may never feel good at all. Was it your first time? If it was that could also be the reason you didn't like it, also it may not have felt good because it was forced on you and you were not able to relax.
My advice to you would be to wait until you are older and even married. Sex can be deadly if you do not use a condom and they do not always work to protect you from sexually transmitted diseases. Please make sure your boy friend always wears one!
You could also face an unwanted pregnancy and that will change your whole life.
Talk to your parents or a friend or even the Police, or a teacher, someone who can help you because it is wrong for you to be forced by anyone!!! Stay away from your boy friend, he cannot and does not truly love you and care for you if he is forcing you to have sex! And do not believe him if he tells you he loves you! No One and I mean NO ONE will do that to you against your will if they love you!
Please seek help some place, someone will help you. I am sorry this happened to you, it was very wrong of your boy friend to do that to you. If you do not want to get him into trouble even though he deserves to be in trouble then at least talk to someone and stay away from him.
Can you go to a friend? The police? Anyone? I hope you will ask someone for help. Also you could call a rape hot line. 1-800-656-HOPE or go to http://www.rainn.org or 1-800-799-SAFE or http://www.ncvc.org these are places that can help you. I wish you all the best and I hope I have helped you. If you have any more problems or questions please feel free to ask. Take care, I wish you all the best.

Answer 3

I don't want to sound like a prude, but when it comes to sex, there is only one opinion that matters before you are married and that opinion is yours and yours only. Btw, lot's of people "don't wanna" despite the what modern culture says. Love is so much more than sex and you may want sex and wanting sex for sex itself is okay, but doing the deed because you enjoy sex is one thing. but don't mistake it for love, call it what it is and enjoy but don't call it love. Expecting love in return is a delusion. But if you don't 'wanna' don't, it's a "slow down," possible danger ahead signal from your inner self. If you don't believe me wait until you have children, you will love them more them more than life itself whether you be the father or the mother. I was not prepared for the hold my children would have on my heart, even when they were shouting, saying "NO" and resisting me for no reason I could understand and making more noise than a Space Shuttle launch, part of me was laughing despite the frustration. Taking care of a puking child with diarrhea at 3am and being scared is true love. I can't tell you how much I miss it.

Answer 4

some people have a higher sex drive than others...needless to say u aren't one of those people. Try getting it on with urself so u can find out what u like and let ur man know. The relationship won't last without sex...just an FYI

Answer 5

omg! he forced you? DUMP him!!! you deserve better than that, if a guy forces you to "do it," DUMP him! i'm assuming you mean sex, and if you don't already know, you could get pregnant and then i highly doubt he'll want you anymore. if he's forcing you, then he doesn't like you and if you won't "do it" with him, he'll just find some1 else or force some1 else to "do it" with him. as for how it feels, i'm still a virgin (and i'm not embarrassed to say so) so i can't tell you.

Answer 6

It only feels good when both people want it. You didn't, so it sucked. But where does he get off, forcing you to have sex against your will? I'd castrate him.

Answer 7

first off never do anything that you don't want to do. If he can't wait until you are ready then he doesn't love you like he should. I think he just wants to do it so he can brag to his friends or so he can try to relieve stress. But don't let him pressure you into anything you don't want to do.

Answer 8

Just be yourself. be strong and smart.
Not be shame or anything, you have to tell him how you feel.
If he really love you, he will understand. If not, think again that you would love to have this relationship for how long.

Answer 9

just to let you know it is a criminal offense for your BF to force you into having sex

Answer 10

If you don't like to do it and it make you feel uncomfortable then don't do it, it isn't fair that he is making you do this if he doesn't respect your decision then dump him.