2006-12-27 15:00:02 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Make sure you're emotionally ready for it and not being pressured by anybody (either the person who will be your partner, or your friends). And of course, if you do decide to go ahead, always use protection. Kids nowadays are engaging in sex at too young an age (in my opinion). Many don't think of oral sex as "real" sex, but it can certainly cause STD's, HIV, etc.
2006-12-27 15:05:59 · answer #1 · answered by 60s Chick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So many things.. one could start in about condoms, you could discuss maturity, I would go with 'the art of..', ie- letting all of your senses take over, paying attention to what excites yourself and your partner, and most importantly: foreplay, foreplay, foreplay.
But if you're going to do it, then use a condom even if you think you know where he's been. All the rest is something you will have to discover yourself.
2006-12-28 12:15:41 · answer #2 · answered by thatoneguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Healthwise - make SURE you use protection/condom. Relax, don't rush or be rushed.
Heartwise - make sure he treats you with respect and not be a d*&k after just because he got what he wanted.
Be careful darlin - I just hope you are old enough & this is what is truely right. There is no going back.
2006-12-27 23:09:42 · answer #3 · answered by JeyJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Condoms!!!! and don't expect it to be some fantastic, lights flashing, bell ringing experience like you've probably read about or been told. First time can be quite a bit scary.
2006-12-27 23:04:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay relaxed, and be sure to do it with the right guy. It's important. What else, I mean 1st time with anyone, is a bad idea. Let it be special.
2006-12-28 00:17:54 · answer #5 · answered by Sarab s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use protection!! No glove; no love. The first time is not too enjoyable, it can and will be painful. Just remember to relax...relaxing is very important.
2006-12-27 23:01:32 · answer #6 · answered by KansasCityGirl26 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Safety first, take it slow, try to savor every moment, you will remember it for the rest of your life. Make sure the memory will be a good one for both of you.
2006-12-27 23:09:04 · answer #7 · answered by sexmagnet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax.
2006-12-27 23:02:23 · answer #8 · answered by Mom of Three 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a partner. Both partners go to the same doctor to get a "health" clearance.
2006-12-27 23:03:20 · answer #9 · answered by bobweb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you are over 21 or married first.
2006-12-27 23:07:08 · answer #10 · answered by snvffy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋