I've had this guy I like tell me that he was comin' to visit me, and he's stood me up twice now, without callin' me or anything...but i haven't confronted him about it, because it doesn't bother me much because he told me not to get attatched because he is a bad boyfriend...so I don't think I will confront him, but I think maybe i should, because maybe that's what he wants me to do?? I have no idea, what to do about this guy...he is confusin' me totally...but I like him lots, i feel a strong attraction between the two of us, when i'm with him...i don't know what to do, because of him standin' me up twice and not callin' me to let me know about it...and he asked me if he could visit...so i said sure...but he didn't show...i wanna know why he didn't, and why he hasn't called :( and what should I do about it...
2006-12-27 14:58:58 · 11 answers · asked by RadMe02 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
MOVE ON!!! This guy obviously doesn't value spending time with you if he can so easily ditch you twice without so much as a phone call.
The whole "bad boyfriend" line is just a crock, he is trying to keep you at bay so he has an excuse to treat you like crap. If you have any self worth, move on and let him know you're not sitting around waiting on him anymore!
2006-12-27 15:06:57 · answer #1 · answered by Blue Eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he expects you to confront him, then that's high maintenance. You're having to chase him - hmmmm, that's high maintenance. His being selfish, ignorant, rude, unthoughtful, unkind, the list goes on and on - forget about him. There is someone out there who likes you enough that he CARES about hurting you or leaving you waiting. Find THAT GUY, and leave this one high and dry.
2006-12-27 15:03:03 · answer #2 · answered by whatrukidding 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's an ***, move on to another. you seem like a nice person, and one that shouldn't be run over by some *******. If he really liked you he wouldn't BS and then not even have the balls to call you. You can find some one better.
2006-12-27 15:02:05 · answer #3 · answered by girls are confusing 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If someone told me they were a bad guy I would move on with my life.
2006-12-27 15:02:19 · answer #4 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is upsetting you, confront him, sooner or later this will explode, better now than when more time passes by and you get more attached.
2006-12-27 15:02:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find someone that won't stand you up.If he has done it to you twice it won't end there.You won't change him and don't waste your time trying guys use and abuse good girls all the time who think they can change them.So Good Luck and go find someone who will treat you well.
2006-12-27 15:03:15 · answer #6 · answered by sparky75us 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's trying for your attention, or he's got his *** kicked in a previous relationship and so, is worried.
2006-12-27 16:17:55 · answer #7 · answered by Sarab s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on find someone who doesn't have to travel to see you.
2006-12-27 15:01:10 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs. Brown 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you asked him?
you can get the best answer from that guy
2006-12-27 15:04:40 · answer #9 · answered by L-BA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he at least warned you, thats when you should have ran!
2006-12-27 15:01:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋