Is it wrong to go to lunch several times with a girl you work with who has a boyfriend? She says no to dinner, but lunch is ok. I just recently found out that she was back with this guy... She really didn't want me to know that they had gotten back together. I just don't know if I am being used or if she is considering me over this guy.
2006-12-27 14:57:55 · 13 answers · asked by Chuck J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it is fine as long as you guys are just friends and thats all and if both of you are clear on that then I think that is ok
2006-12-27 15:00:08 · answer #1 · answered by Nicole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello Chuck J,
No. I do not think that there is anything wrong with going with this girl to lunch. However I do have some concerns regarding the fact that she didn't want you to know that she'd gotten back with this guy.
You see my concern is that she may be trying to lets just say make this guy jealous. I wouldn't want you getting caught up in something that turns out to be a huge mess one day while you all are out to lunch.
This isn't to say that she's doing this but do use caution... you never know what some girls are thinking or trying to do to get back at some guy!
Take care!!
2006-12-27 15:05:21 · answer #2 · answered by ssgtmommy01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put the shoe on the other foot.
If you had a girlfriend who was having lunch several times with a guy, would you be OK with it?
2006-12-27 15:01:52 · answer #3 · answered by Jakarta Worker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste your time with this girl. If she really wanted you- she would not be back with the other guy.
From the other guys stand point.....yes, it is wrong to go to lunch with his girlfriend.
2006-12-27 15:15:45 · answer #4 · answered by vabarbie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on your feelings for her- if you like her as more than a friend then it is definitely wrong, if your just really close it's ok- and her feelings for you-which sound a little mixed up. Talk to her about it but it seems to me like she doesn't have the best of intentions. It would probably be better to back off for a while.
2006-12-27 15:01:25 · answer #5 · answered by pinkktewl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She went back to him,and didn't want you to know it.That in it self tells me that you are being played.Now just suppose you and her go to lunch one day,and he decides to surprise her by coming to her job to take her to lunch.Is that a situation you want to find yourself in?I would hope not.
2006-12-27 15:05:56 · answer #6 · answered by Willnotlietoyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not wrong to go to lunch with her, but ur being used...
2006-12-27 15:00:17 · answer #7 · answered by violet83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. Eat and enjoy. She's probably going to use you as a friend who can decipher the mysterious mind of men.
2006-12-27 16:17:50 · answer #8 · answered by Sarab s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't pay for her lunch anymore!
2006-12-27 16:56:01 · answer #9 · answered by zotzotzot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at this point, just lunch, go for it
2006-12-27 14:59:47 · answer #10 · answered by ray 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋