What I am talking about is dating as far as a social get together between two people for whatever purpose. (You can go on a date with your date or mother or sister or best friend). But what I am talking about is if your purpose is that you want to know more about the persons over a period of time along with friendship until things start to get serious with one of them.
I like the idea of courtship and not prematurely commiting yourself to one person who you really dont know. You are their friend the whole time till it goes into deeper stages near engagement (which they ask for you exclusively to commit to them)...
What do you think about the multiple dating and about what I said about remaining friends (even if deeper feelings and romantic interest comes into play) until ya'll have all the info and experiences with each other to make a decision for exclusiveness?
2006-12-27 14:55:21 · 16 answers · asked by DconS 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is true that there would definitely be no premarital sex and no commitment!!
2006-12-27 15:00:17 · update #1
Also THEY ARE ALL told that there are others. Remember that I am single, theres no commitment because we are all strangers, and there is NO SEX!!
2006-12-27 15:04:18 · update #2
I see everything right with dating more than one man........as long as you do it with integrity(no sleeping around) and each gentleman knows from the beginning that you are dating others.
Dating develops your level of discernment. You'll come to realize and define what you want and don't want in a man and in a relationship.
It's not being a player, it's being wise.
You will eventually narrow it down to the one man you want to get to know better within an exclusive relationship.
2006-12-27 15:07:15 · answer #1 · answered by Janet 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
relies upon what you mean via "relationship" them. If meaning you will the videos or dinner or another pastime that would not contain intercourse then you certainly could fill your boots. If via relationship you mean having intercourse with distinctive females on the comparable time (the two serially or in a team) then you certainly will probably discover that lots of the girls could in comparison to this and could scratch each others eyes out. however that's oftentimes a snigger to computer screen and placed on Youtube there may be repercussions. do no longer physique of suggestions any of the girlsif they have a pair of sissors of their arms and who've a minimum of one good eye to work out you with. wish that enables.
2016-10-19 01:52:56 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on how serious yo uare wit heach person, if you get physical or emotional with them then yes maybe your a playa, but if it stays as just a series of get togethers to indulge on knowlegde and getting to know them then that fine, but i would let all parties involved so that they are aware of what is happening, dont assume, all guys will understand or be accepting of that.
2006-12-27 15:01:53 · answer #3 · answered by jefster03 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with that as longs as you let them know. Why would you be commiting to one person when you don't know them?I say you go girl just be careful.
2006-12-27 15:01:39 · answer #4 · answered by Truble 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unless you and someone else promised to exclusively date each other, dating multiple people is fine.
2006-12-27 14:58:39 · answer #5 · answered by Annalisa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, u know we always hate the man if we find out they are dating multiple girls, but usually becuse they lie about it or something... this is what i think... it is ok to date more than one guy, but dont let them think you are only dating them... you dont exaclty have to tell them u are seeing others, just dont let them get any idea that you are exclusive, and dont sleep with them
2006-12-27 14:59:36 · answer #6 · answered by amwolf2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is wrong,and it will probably earn you a name or two that has nothing to do with being a good person.
2006-12-27 14:58:27 · answer #7 · answered by Willnotlietoyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i get what you are trying to say and i think i do, then i totally agree with you. but don't be afraid to let yourself go sometimes if you really have strong feelings for someone:)
2006-12-27 14:58:44 · answer #8 · answered by pinkktewl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I admire you, it is what dating was supposed to be, you should date multple people.....and there shouldn't be any messing around if you want to do it properly without distractions.
2006-12-27 14:58:31 · answer #9 · answered by WitchTwo 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I see nothing wrong with it as long as no committment is made and no sex involved.
2006-12-27 14:58:27 · answer #10 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋