ok ... Im dating this Virgo guy guy for a month . I tell you he's the sweetest guy ever... until one day, he stopped calling me. So being a girl who follows the dating rules, I went on with my life even if I really like him to death! In other words I didn't even call him . 2 weeks had passed and I got a flower at work from him. telling me he really felt bad for not calling me and he wants to hang out coz he really felt bad. then I never heard from him again... it's been a week and I don't want to make a move by calling him. my question is:
Is he being a Virgo?(he fits the typical signs)
is he being immature? (Im 8 years older than him) he's 21 and Im 29
is he being a jerk!?
should I I confront him? should I just ignore him? I mean I date other people but I really like him I dunno I guess Im confused!
How do I deal with this 21, virgo male ?
Im an Aries by the way..
2006-12-27 14:51:31 · 7 answers · asked by bonita 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I honestly think that he thinks you are pissed off at him for not calling you. And since you have not called he is testing the waters by sending you the flower, now since you have not called he is assuming you want nothing to do with him so he will not call, you will not call therefore this is it.
I say call him and talk to him and tell him your expectations. You both need to stop playing games. Dating rules you should follow are your own rules. If you like him let him know but also make sure he understands that you are not a doormat and made clear to him what you expect in a relationship. If he is ready he will stay if not he will run. simple.
2006-12-27 14:59:12 · answer #1 · answered by Cyrinos 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
he is just being a virgo.......check out the Love Computer at www.cainer.com it tells you some interesting info as to the characteristics of relationship involving different signs.
2006-12-27 23:03:30 · answer #2 · answered by WitchTwo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing for nothing...i don't think it has anything to do with astrology...may more of hes 21 and your 29 HELLO remember when you were 21, i do i was very immature.. just because the law says your an adult doesn't mean you are one
2006-12-27 22:54:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he's having trouble making up his mind. Could it be that he's concerned about the age difference?
I'm not sure what to suggest. Go on with your life, date other people, and wait to see what happens. If you feel like contacting him, then go ahead if your curiosity is killing you!
2006-12-27 22:56:20 · answer #4 · answered by 60s Chick 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds like he is insecure, and needs to be assured of your feelings towards him - assuming you really have any.
don't get hung up on starsigns - theyr'e gross generalization.
2006-12-27 22:59:22 · answer #5 · answered by bata4689 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Virgo don't have anything to do with it.
2006-12-27 22:54:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
idk i'm libra the bowels
2006-12-27 22:54:45 · answer #7 · answered by jboy91148 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋