When i go out i tend to drink alot before i go out as i feel it gives me more confidence. Even if i am going out down the pub i feel i have to drink at least half a bottle of Jack Daniels and i also enjoy the buzz i get from it. Also if i go out with friends, to be as drunk as them i need to drink before i go out otherwise i would just be sober come the end of the night. I would love to go out and not get drunk before i go to a pub or club but i have been so use to drinking before i go out. Can anyone help?
2006-12-27 14:46:22 · 12 answers · asked by ? 2 in Food & Drink ➔ Beer, Wine & Spirits
Dude, I worked in bars. I used to drink plenty of whiskey! I found I had to drink before I went in to the bar, because everyone else was so wasted, I couldn't stand to be around them. Now that I'm older, I find it much more pleasing, to have a couple before I go out, but the key here is to stop drinking around 11:30 12:00 at night. This will give you ample time to sober up before you drive. I won't drink and drive. So have your fun earlier, but remember the fun you had!
2006-12-27 14:51:59 · answer #1 · answered by niceguy_thats_me2000 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can have confidence without getting drunk. Do you really need to be drunk like your friends? When going out Ip the club tend to not like to get drunk so I volunteered to be the driver which I and everyone else loves the idea of. That gives me an out. My friends and I love to hit up the local clubs and dance the night away. Also what lady is going to talk to someone who hits up the club drunk before getting there? There are plenty of non achololic drinks that look achololic that you can order.
It sounds to me like you are tired of the drinking part of the clubs and pubs but want the social outlet ect. Discuss this problem with your friends and please dont let the drinking get out of control.
My simple advice would be to seek help for the drinking and feeling that you need confidence. I know people do not consider it a manly thing but therapist work wonders and will give you ideas to help you answer this question.
2006-12-27 23:29:20 · answer #2 · answered by ursula_higgs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, I'm sorry to hear that. I have confidence without alcohol. The issue isn't whether or not you drink alcohol,it's why and how much. Being intoxicated was never meant to be the answer to anything. It's a result of too much alcohol while having fun doing something else. When you make the alcohol the primary source of enjoyment, confidence, cause of fun, it becomes your master. Yes, you are a slave. Because a man is a slave to whatever he is bound to.
I hope you find some peace someday and realize you are a man, made in the image of God. Imagine what that means for you.
2006-12-27 23:25:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have a drink before i left the house, just something to give me a buzz. Then whenever you get where you're going, have another drink but something on the lighter side and just sip. Then you'll still keep your buzz but won't be totally wasted. Oh yea, you'll still have the confidence too.
2006-12-27 22:49:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anika P 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have a large, greasy meal before drinking, to give you some base. Don't be the loser that throws up on other ppl's shoes.
2006-12-27 22:48:55 · answer #5 · answered by ladybugewa 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't drink beer, man oh and in case you do, STAY DRUNK to avoid a hangover!
2006-12-27 22:55:50 · answer #6 · answered by Potiphar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drugs?
2006-12-27 22:57:11 · answer #7 · answered by John Smith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know man. If you find out, let me know. Everything is more fun when I'm drunk.
2006-12-27 23:00:05 · answer #8 · answered by pinwheelbandit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well depends were u live maby go to like a strip joint can im pretty sure that you will have fun there .
2006-12-27 22:49:27 · answer #9 · answered by ]$[ MiKeY -> 69er 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that only happens because you're not hanging out with me!
2006-12-27 23:26:44 · answer #10 · answered by soccerjock 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋