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If so how did the guy do it? If not, is that a good place to meet a girl?

2006-12-27 14:20:55 · 10 answers · asked by p3k27 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Yes I have been approached at the mall, and depending on the person how they look, what they say, his demeanor etc. it could be a good thing or a bad thing. If he looks like he is in on an operation(like somebody running game, scam, or trying to steal from me) then it is a very bad thing. Most of the time, that is what it looks like, because think if a male complete stranger walked up to you,then you are already standoffish. But if we were in line or something for a while, then it would be different because then I know what their intentions are.(to buy something) So, if you want to approach a girl in the mall, make sure she is with friends or something, and she is not alone if you want to walk up to her in the clear blue. But the best way to do it is while you are in the store or something or doing something she is doing(eating at the next table at the food court, in the checkout line, etc.) The trick is to be subtle, discreet, slick.:)

2006-12-27 14:28:37 · answer #1 · answered by HustleGirl 3 · 0 0

you know sweetie, asking a lady that is a total stranger for a date in the mall is not the best idea. A guy did approach me and it only made me feel nervous and unsettled. He was a nice guy and everything; just him being a total stranger, it really is a risk to say yes to that.
You want to meet and date ladies? well, see if you can get into some sort of church based social club for singles. They usually meet all together for coffee and talk and get to know each other without there being too much pressure or it feeling to wierd to the women. Or find a nice social place like bingo or couty fairs and gatherings like that. But don't expect the ladies to just go on a date. You have to get to know someone before you just go out with them. You gotta see if they are sane, nice, adaptable to who you are. We are complicated beings with lots of stuff that has to match up for us to consider dating. And ok, it will take a little while, but you will find someone that way that smiles when you do, laughs at the same things, likes the same music or movies. That is really how you make good dating matches.
Be a gentleman and treat them as you would want someone to treat your own grandma, with lots of respect. :o)

2006-12-27 22:32:26 · answer #2 · answered by the witch 4 · 1 0

yeah i have been asked out many times while shopping at the mall but the guys who asked me out was more into my body and looks then they were into me i mean it made me sick no man will ever treat me like **** like i don't mean anything to them but the mall if you want is a good place to meet a girl but only if you are willing to treat her right and get to know her.

2006-12-27 22:37:19 · answer #3 · answered by Kitty 3 · 0 0

Women practice dismissal, fear, and preoccupation.

You need an opening line, small talk, and to close with getting their number or a date.

The number one dating advice for women is "play hard to get".

There is one good looking woman for every 1000 men and 1000 obese women at the mall.

Good looking women sales clerks also are vastly outnumbered by men and obese, ugly women sales clerks.

Also, no one has ever seen the start of a relationship, and obese blobs, (that are 50% of the population), have immature hysteria that causes delirium in good looking women.

2006-12-29 15:50:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

yes good place to meet a girl i mean thats one reson i like going to the mall but soemeitnes the guys are just too scared n wont go for it n it sucks cuz pronly i wanted to meet him too
if this is what yu wanna do go for it just dont exagerate

2006-12-27 22:32:04 · answer #5 · answered by ~*dis girl*~ 2 · 0 0

ya this random guy walked up to me and put his arm around me while I was picking up a gift for my sister (she was somewhere else in the mall) well he asked me out and was lie hey how you doing want to get together sometime and than gave me his phone number

2006-12-27 22:28:01 · answer #6 · answered by Nicole 2 · 0 0

The guy followed me around.Different things work for different folks. It all depends on the person, but I also didn't go out with him, I thought that he was weird for following me around.

2006-12-27 22:32:12 · answer #7 · answered by Hey Girl 2 · 0 0

yes

2006-12-27 22:27:18 · answer #8 · answered by BlondeCheerChick 3 · 0 0

yes
he came up and complimented what i was wearing

2006-12-27 22:25:46 · answer #9 · answered by Tek ~aka~Legs! 7 · 0 0

no

2006-12-29 02:48:39 · answer #10 · answered by john 7 · 0 0

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