i am 14 years old and i haven't been kissed...i haven't even had a boyfriend. i've been told that i am very pretty and that i am very nice...but also very shy when it comes to boys i like. is it normal that i haven't been kissed before? i've slow-danced with guys before, but i've never actually been in a relationship before. i've had guys like me, but i've never been kissed.
2006-12-27 13:44:39 · 17 answers · asked by Surfergirl 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, its not bad! Most of the time beautiful girls make guys feel a bit insecure. They think there is no way that you could be interseted in them. If you want a guy to like you, you have to let them know, but dont move ot fast. Your still just 1 and there is no need for you to rush the heaart aches and breaks that we all face in life.
2006-12-27 14:12:18 · answer #1 · answered by Jenna J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! It's not a bad thing. In fact it's a good thing. I wasn't kissed til I was 16. Didn't have a boyfriend till then either. It's perfectly fine that you've never been kissed. Don't push it. You have plenty of time for things like that. Enjoy who you are and your age. Have fun and don't worry about boys. It will come in due time.
2006-12-27 21:50:44 · answer #2 · answered by tooterbutton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're as pretty as you say you are (which I don't doubt) then it's possible that boys like you but are scared of you (not literally) because they think you are so pretty and that you already have a boyfriend or that you have so many guys trying to "get with" you that you wouldn't want to date them. It's not bad that hasn't happened to you yet but if you really want it to happen then sometimes you have to make things happen. if there's a guy you like then spend more time with him and let him know you're interested. He'll probably try to kiss you and if he doesn't then it just means he's probably as nervous as you. Keep the faith Surfergirl, things will happen in time : )
2006-12-27 21:53:53 · answer #3 · answered by DLG 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same thing here girl....Im 16 never had a bf or been kissed and everyone says im so pretty and nice.
I don't know but just try not to worry about it. Thats what I do.
2006-12-27 21:48:56 · answer #4 · answered by Country Girl 08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is not bad keep it up. i am nineteen and only began having boyfriends when i was sixteen even though "fellas" begged and worshipped me.i feel a boyfriend is a keep back.just look at your friends from the time they get a boy friend they rule their lives when u used to hang out every friday they now spend it with their bf and when the boyfriend is going out they have no one to hang out with.my advice is SINGLE IS FREE AND GREAT. enjoy your youth until you are sure your are ready. i told you i had my first boyfriend when i was 16 i am now on my 6 boyfriend and wants to be free.Keepthat to yourself lol!!!!
2006-12-27 21:52:24 · answer #5 · answered by m-ria 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. You'll find the right moment. Don't let others control you or tell you that you are less of a person.
2006-12-27 21:47:38 · answer #6 · answered by Justin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of people do not get serious with the other sex until they are out of high school or in college. Relax and do your school work.
2006-12-27 21:47:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really shouldn't stress about it. Your time will come, you just have to be patient. Even though others your age might have, that doesn't mean it's your time to.
2006-12-27 21:47:56 · answer #8 · answered by girls are confusing 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my first kiss was 17.
2006-12-27 22:03:59 · answer #9 · answered by Zachary H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll be kissed sooner then you think. Don't worry about it, it'll happen!
2006-12-27 21:47:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋