Depends on the guy and the girl... Sometimes if a woman doesn't make the first move she misses out on a great guy just because he got shy or thought she wasn't interested...
2006-12-27 13:39:57
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answer #1
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answered by Anonymous
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A guy does not necessarily have to make the first move. She can do it too. I don't think it matters from a Christian perspective.
There may be all sorts of 'Christian perspectives' on relationships, but I don't think it matters who make the first move. I suppose some would say that it depends on just what that 'first move' is exactly.
2006-12-27 21:41:10
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answer #2
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answered by Zezo Zeze Zadfrack 1
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Why does it matter if it's from a Christian perspective? I'm Christian and I don't let my religion affect my choices (unless of course it's a really big decision, like suddenly become aethistic). Personally, the guy doesn't always have to make the first move. I make a lot of the first moves just because I like to. It really doesn't matter.
2006-12-27 21:40:50
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answer #3
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answered by Juanita S 1
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No women should also make the first move. Why? There are guys like me out there that are too shy to make the first move.
2006-12-27 21:38:44
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answer #4
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answered by Darktania 5
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Can I ask what is unchristainly about the female making the first move. There are plenty of things that could be mistaken as "the first move" such as a smile or a quick glance.
2006-12-27 21:38:38
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answer #5
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answered by angela_hauff 2
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Nope, all this anti-woman crap has been added through the ages because of a bunch of uptight old idiots *my reasoning after looking into it* who couldn't get laid so they didn't want anyone else to be able to *end my reasoning*.
In fact, a good bit of the anti-sex tinge came from them too.
Most of the religion treats one and another as equals if not favoring the woman a bit(don't ask me where that went, but it is written in there). So someone who follows the book rather than someone else's teachings, should be fine with a woman doing what she wanted when she wanted.
2006-12-27 21:39:27
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answer #6
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answered by distind 2
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The guy never EVER makes the first move, whether he's a Christian or not lol. It is the woman who sends the signal that an approach is okay.
2006-12-27 21:44:20
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answer #7
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answered by arewethereyet 7
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I, myself would like them to make the first move... but I would never wait very long... I would end up making that move in case the guy was rather shy.
2006-12-28 12:45:44
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answer #8
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answered by Kitty 6
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It is equal opportunity, but a person has to reveal themselves as being friendly and not merely nosy or making a midnight you know what call! Only time will tell, if you are about to make a true friend....Proverbs 18:24
2006-12-27 21:43:00
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answered by Stormchaser 5
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Ideally, I would think that you would want a man to be a man and make the move. However, sometimes you girls have a way of crumbling us to dust with a wink of an eye. So, if he don't move, you better. I don't see anything unchristian about that.
2006-12-27 21:44:54
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answer #10
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answered by ScottyJae 5
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