I need to break up with him because he is very abusive. He hits me and everything and I know he doesn't love me but we just decided to try it out. If I break up with him I don't know what he will do to me because he doesn't love me and he is not afraid to hurt me. Help!?!
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2006-12-27 13:35:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't understand! He might kill me! He has a gun and he often uses it. If I break up with him he will surely use it again.
He will find me. I am scared to death. Right now he is getting gas for his car, I am home alone...any more advice?
2006-12-27 13:40:36 · update #1
I don't want to put my friends in any danger. He KILLS. He said if he ever catches me with the police he will shove a knife down my throat.
2006-12-27 13:43:27 · update #2
In the time we have been going out he has:
-Beaten an elderly woman in front of my eyes because she wouldn't give up her bus seat.
-Broken my arm.
-Put a gun to my head.
2006-12-27 13:47:40 · update #3
Tell your closest friends what is going on, and even tell your parents, now matter how old you are.
Ask your boyfriend to meet you at a resteraunt, say like "meet me at 8 there" but come at 7:55 with like 3 of your friends.
When he arrives, tell him that you hate being in this relationship. Leave with all your friends right behind you, just so you feel safe. Plus you could have a trusted guy friend waiting in the car if you don't feel safe at all.
Eek! Your details even scare me! Call 911 RIGHT NOW! I understand you are scared, but do it! Call 911, please!
Say, "I am very afraid that my abusive boyfriend is going to hurt me." Give them all the info they need and then even tell them the liscense plate of the car he drives if you know it.
****PLEASE CALL 911 RIGHT NOW! PLEASE PLEASE DO IT! DON'T WAIT ANY LONGER, YOU DON'T DESERVE THIS HELL! PLEASE****
2006-12-27 13:40:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds like your b/f is a psychotic jerk. Your best option is to go to the police and report of what's going on with him. It would also be a good idea to tell your family as well (if you haven't done so already). I hope this helps somehow. Good luck.
2006-12-27 13:39:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he is threatening you right now call 911 and tell them you need immediate assistance your being threatend and get out of there NOW!! Get a PROTECTION ORDER and dont trust him.
2006-12-27 13:45:53 · answer #3 · answered by hopefloats 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl your in hell.but atleast you know that you have to leave.break it off with him in public like the library but before you do that ask a male friend to come with u let him be large in size than your soon to be ex.and dont make yourself easy prey by hanging out in public.and tell every one know he hits... you need to watch Madea I can do bad all by myself
2006-12-27 13:41:11 · answer #4 · answered by m-ria 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put him on a peace bond and do not play with abusive remarks.
2006-12-27 13:39:10 · answer #5 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do women get with guys like this?
go to a womans shelter if you have no other options.
2006-12-27 13:37:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL YOUR PARENTS ABOUT HIM
YOU MUST LEAVE THE JERK BEFORE YOU GET HURT
IF YOU HAVE TO REPORT IT TO THE POLICE
2006-12-27 13:50:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call the cops on him.
2016-09-22 09:13:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
TELL SOMEONE...AND GET RID OF THAT JERK
2006-12-27 13:38:32 · answer #9 · answered by Gordita de Oro 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋