About 5 months ago I accidentally blurted out to a friend of mine that I loved my best friend, a mutual friend of ours, during an argument and we soon got into a romantic relationship. He's the love of my life but I'm not sure if we did the right thing in getting romantically involved. Should we stay together or could this cause problems down the road?
2006-12-27 12:49:32 · 14 answers · asked by Telkan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Aw if things are working out for you guys don't second guess. The best relationships are when you are comfortable with the one you love. And it seems you are. If thing should go sour, which I doubt, it may be hard but at least you know that you were truly loved. Every heartache brings pain but just because you all were friends doesn't mean it wrong. It right! and I think you wasted five points asking a question that you already know the answer too! :oP smile!
2006-12-27 12:54:21 · answer #1 · answered by from_me_to_you 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! That is a very good question. You do know that your relationship will never be the same again. It's not that it will cause problems down the road it's that your relationship will never ever be the same since you got romantically involved.
2006-12-27 13:00:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If things are going well now, the only thing that's going to cause problems is your own self doubt over whether or not you "did the right thing." And besides, it's always best to have the person you're in a relationship be your best friend.
2006-12-27 12:53:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, i always consider a friendship-to-relationship as a positive upgrade.. if it has been working out for 5 months, then great!
it would be sad if the relationship didn't work, as then you'd lose both a lover and a friend. but you can't think that way. focus on making it work...
you've crossed the line from friend to lover, and you can't go back now..
2006-12-27 12:53:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can have no better ground for a relationship then being true friends. Just keep talking to them and everything will work out.
2006-12-27 12:52:39 · answer #5 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
very good question.i have a freind that everyone claims is in love with me,,but i dont see it.. if i were single i would str8 up ask her if i have a chance,, but since i dont hae such a chance,,ill answer your question,,yes it is ok,, you did the right thing,,unless you are no longer feel the same about them
2006-12-27 12:55:03 · answer #6 · answered by kewl69charger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best friends can make a good relationship, afterall, you have to like each other first.
2006-12-27 12:53:42 · answer #7 · answered by m c 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should give it a shot . If it doesnt work out then you might learn a lesson about dating your close friends.
2006-12-27 12:53:25 · answer #8 · answered by titi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mine led to six years baby try it.me and my husband been bestfriends since i was 14!
2006-12-27 12:52:24 · answer #9 · answered by blaque 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they are the love of your life stick wit them
2006-12-27 12:52:20 · answer #10 · answered by cutesweetbooty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋