I have had several debates about this question but I wanna know what the people around the world would do. After three years I want to jump back in the dating game. Is it wrong for me to go out and search for a date? I understand that love comes to you and all the other bull but this is the new age and I think that with so many options there's no reason to wait on someone to come to you when it may never happen. Plus women have less options when it comes to companions than men do? So what do you think?
2006-12-27 12:49:29 · 21 answers · asked by from_me_to_you 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is only one question in my mind: What took you so long?
Get out there. Not with the idea that tou are looking for true love.
Get out there and make friends, have fun. If you happen to run into true love consider that a bonus!
2006-12-27 12:57:56 · answer #1 · answered by bata4689 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong. Actually it would be nice to see a girl who asks guys out on a date, who isn't a prostitute.
The guys I know, a lot of them don't want relationships.
It might be a little hard to find a guy who wants a relationship.
I notice this kind of thing because I want to have a relationship with a woman.
I have a suggestion; don't go to a bar or club, there is a high chance that the guys there don't want a relationship, just someone to screw.
2006-12-27 13:09:43 · answer #2 · answered by Crono6664 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how you plan on going about searching for a date. Soliciting one in the street is probably a less than stellar solution, but in general there's nothing wrong or shameful about putting yourself out there, letting the world know you're available.
Do what you like, you're an independent woman and the only one with any right to judge you is you.
2006-12-27 12:55:51 · answer #3 · answered by tinkcph 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go for it, get out there and find fun and if any guy ends up in the party of things then good for you. I was single and went out ot bars with friends ,found guy friends ,some with benefits,and I got talked about by my family, badly, just watch who knows you fun, and where you are having it. But it's no ones bussiness who you date or how much, just go and enjoy life.And watch out there are alot of new kinds of creeps out there these days!And with sex, don't give it up on first date, why buy the cow if the milks for free.And when you do, make him use protection, STD's are every wheres now adays.
2006-12-27 13:01:16 · answer #4 · answered by ladylily29 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Jump in , love comes to you is what people who already have someone say, life is short get as much from it as you can. As far as women having less options if you are in the old USA ,I don't see it that way. Good Luck,hon.....he's out there and just waiting to meet you!!!
2006-12-27 12:57:31 · answer #5 · answered by chosen37 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you feel comfortable with it, go ahead. I'm sure lots of guys love the thought of a woman meeting them halfway (or more) on the dating front. It's the 21st century - no reason for you to sit at home hoping some guy will have the nerve to ask you out!
2006-12-27 12:54:00 · answer #6 · answered by fdm215 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my advice is don't think about it as much. I know that sounds difficult but if you're too self-conscious that's actually a turnoff
like the other answers here, I'll suggest hanging out with friends more, visiting new places, and just having a good time. with all the positive energy around you, you'll be sure to attract someone special :)
2006-12-27 13:18:41 · answer #7 · answered by Karolina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not go looking and just put yourself out in the opening and that guy will notice you. Socialize more often and meet new friends through some of your pals. Yes it can and will happen you are a lady and the odds are in your favor.
2006-12-27 12:55:49 · answer #8 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for one I love a woman who just goes out and finds what she wants. And now a days it doesn't matter if your a man or woman if you want to find a date go looking. Maybe you will find someone who can keep you happy and know how to treat you. SO if I was you I would go and look. If you want to chat IM me anytime
2006-12-27 12:52:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's 'wrong' per se. However, I have female friends who are forever on the hunt for a man. Let me tell you, the harder they try, the more it eludes them. I have to say from my own personal experience, that the same applies for men.
2006-12-27 12:53:07 · answer #10 · answered by Vince 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋