Felt true love, the longing of seeing someone and when you do- absolute happiness. Nothing matters.. time dissapears.. its just you and him. Can talk about anything, say anything and know that you are meant to be.. But what happens when he asks you for a ******** in the car when he "has" to be home in an hour?
2006-12-27 12:46:32 · 12 answers · asked by FRESH_PEACH_98 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You do that... he goes home happy... you go home crying.
2006-12-27 12:48:58 · answer #1 · answered by serendipity 2 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
This is only human...This is man...I am a man too
So, if do not want the ********* just tell him so. Tell him it's not the right time. If he loves you the way you think, he will probably understand.
And what if the "love" thing is just the prelude for sex.
I have never been in love. I do not have a girlfriend. I am not romantic. I run away from potential romantic relations. I do not speak softly to girls. I do not pretend to be gentle or act otherwise with girls. I stay as what I am. Avoid falling in love or breaking the heart of the girls. But I am normal. I like sex. I like the opposite sex.
My friends say I am too cold with girls although I know that deep inside I am not. They keep telling me that I have to be very nice with girls (In fact they want me to fake it..). I do not like the idea. Because I think that by doing so, it will hurt the girl (whoever it may be). They say that every guy does it in life. If I do not do it, I will not get it.
The reason for the long story above is for you to ensure that your "someone" is not only pretending with the expectation of having you in his main menue. Just ensure that he wants to share a lifetime with you, ensure that he want to have a family, try to know about the projects he got with you as his wife and what are your dreams. And what is he doing to make your dream come true? Are the dreams an objective or are they meant just to sound nice to your ears, get you entrapped and then consume you....
Sorry if my answer sounds rude to you.
2006-12-27 21:13:59 · answer #2 · answered by the.buster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's true love (at least not on both sides) when one partner is also committed to someone else at the same time. Personally, I do not like to share. Sharing is a positive trait, but in love, there's no such thing. When those magical moments disappear and you know that he's with someone else in bed when the space beside you is empty, how would you feel? Is it worth it? Yes, it's happy being with him, as long as he's paying attention to you at that time, but whatever happiness you feel with him, there is sadness as the aftermath. At this point in time, if it's just an "affair", he is still unable to JUST bring happiness to your life.
2006-12-27 20:52:46 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs Kee 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. Sounds like his wife wants the trash taken out in an hour
2006-12-27 20:56:10 · answer #4 · answered by loveyoumuch 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Reality sets in and the fantasy bubble bursts.
2006-12-27 20:48:14 · answer #5 · answered by mstrywmn 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
depends what he has to be home for, kids, work, but probably sounds like an affair
2006-12-27 20:48:53 · answer #6 · answered by Hoss 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hook him up, and look forward to the next time.
Then ask yourself, is it True Love???
2006-12-27 20:48:49 · answer #7 · answered by WestCoastin4Life 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Then you have to decide - his convenience or your self respect.
2006-12-27 20:53:26 · answer #8 · answered by outdone 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well there is enough time... and if your ready to ****** then go for it... if not then dont. it is your life...
2006-12-27 20:56:59 · answer #9 · answered by fred Flintstone 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Interesting. Are you a hooker?
2006-12-27 20:49:11 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋