just yesterday i found out that the girl i knew since we were kids got pregnant, and all this time I was trying to find her so she would know how I felt about her.Tell me why it hurts emotionally this bad and why it feels as if i just lost my soulmate?
2006-12-27 12:19:33 · 10 answers · asked by Ayato Kamina 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well seems like it becasue you liked her and didn't find her till it was too late. But what if she's pregnant and the guy who got her that way doesn't want her? Are you willing to live with the thought that you love her and she has someone else's baby? But if you can get passed that I would go to her and have a chat with her and find out how's she's doing and go from there.
2006-12-27 12:35:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I need more details. Is she in a relationship with the baby's father? Or did she just have an accidental pregnancy?
If she's in a relationship then you're sad because you can't have her.
If she isn't in a relationship then you're a jerk because you're acting like she's damaged goods because she's pregnant. Get over it and tell her how you feel about her. A baby isn't a reason to back away from a relationship. Are you a virgin? If no, then why should she be?
2006-12-27 20:26:03 · answer #2 · answered by kherome 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not the only person in her life making decisions as regards spending time with her and loving her. They say that best friends know all about you but like you anyway. True love involves acceptance and forgiveness. Do you love her enough to do what's right for her, especially now?
2006-12-27 20:24:38 · answer #3 · answered by Fergi the Great 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It hurts because you wanted her before any other man had her, and you loved her. All is not lost if she isn't married but now you'll have that baby to think about. search your feelings and go talk to her and tell her how you feel about her.
She may still be yours if it's in the cards.
2006-12-27 20:28:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would a baby stop you from being with someone you love? If the calf comes with the cow, the calf is yours.
2006-12-27 20:31:53 · answer #5 · answered by rlld23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it hurts cause you thought you would go to her and expect that you guys would live happily ever after. but you didnt relize that she might already be in a relationship. so you were crushed when you relized she was pregnant. sorry about what happened.
2006-12-27 20:22:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you with someone now? its okay to feel that way go on myspace and see if you can find her
2006-12-27 20:29:34 · answer #7 · answered by Fruitful 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the out come didnt meet your expectations but that doesnt mean they will never be met... like a few others have said... just b/c she has kids doesnt mean anything... love them as much as you lover her... good luck hun...
2006-12-27 20:26:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the funny thing about life is you never know what it's going to throw at you. we live, we learn, and we move on.
2006-12-27 20:23:20 · answer #9 · answered by Ms Berry Picker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you did lose your soul mate. babies aren't the end of the world. look her up anyways.
2006-12-27 20:22:10 · answer #10 · answered by bluskijewels 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋