I relly love him but I dost cant have him be my boyfrind if he dost call me alot. I dont am scared we have been going out for tow years now. crap whate the hell should I do. I want to let him down easy but I dont know. HELP
2006-12-27 12:09:37 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just tell him that you still do love him, but need some time to be single, and that you wouldn't mind just being friends, good luck, i know it's hard
2006-12-27 12:12:20 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ Sydd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aw, hon...I feel for you! Breakups are always so hard! There's really no way to let someone down easy when you break up with them...the kindest thing you can do right now is just do it and get it over with. My best advice to you is to break up with your bf in person, if possible...I think that shows the most respect for the other person. If that seems too intimidating, do it over the phone. DON'T break up with him through a letter, text message, IM, or e-mail....none of those options is a good way to break up with someone!
I wish you the best! :)
2006-12-27 12:14:45 · answer #2 · answered by wyldberry880 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because he doesn't call you every second he breaths doesn't mean he is cheating or doesn't like you. Everyone has their own life & things to do. If it annoys you that much then discuss it with your boyfriend. Talking about your feeling,thoughts,and concerns can help you have a stronger relationship with the one you love. Good Luck!
2006-12-27 12:37:44 · answer #3 · answered by Jeremy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you should use spell check before you post a question. If he isn't giving you what you want talk to him about it. Tell him what you would like him to do. If he still don't do it tell him you really care about him but your relationship isn't going the way you would like it to and you feel it's time to just be friends. Good luck.
2006-12-27 12:15:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't break up with him. Try talking to him first. 2 years is a while. Just try callin himthenhe willno u wanna tlak tohimand he will prorlly call u more.
2006-12-27 12:13:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesnt call u then dont call him. One way is to never throw yourself on noone. There r 2 many fish n da c. U can have ur pick of the gang.
2006-12-27 12:13:55 · answer #6 · answered by TASHA J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont wait because he is just going to get clingier and clingier, if you cant do it face to face write him a email or a letter or tell himover the phone so you dont have to see him upset and than get back together because you feel bad . If you dont like him no more end the realtionship
2006-12-27 12:14:59 · answer #7 · answered by christin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a boy i have a crush and the last one i had got crushed.Please let him down easy WHEN YOU DO IT IN A MEAN WAY HIS HEART WILL BREAK INTO PEICES
2006-12-27 12:13:45 · answer #8 · answered by Sammyo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say "I am sorry that I have to do this but ...I have to move on because I have other opportunities in life..I am sure you would want me to succeed in life..right? I just feel I have many more opportunities..at this point,...can we be friends?"
2006-12-27 12:23:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are confused......you wanna break up with him....yet you still love him.....i mean why!!!! is there something else bothering you in life....give yourself a bit of space......i mean you cannot break up with him and at the same time say that you love him....it doesnt work that way......
2006-12-27 12:15:53 · answer #10 · answered by Geet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋