Me and my bf have jus started dating, I dont know anything about dating or going out since i have never done so b4. Me and him never talk, only a little and i rlly wanna talk 2 him more, everytime i do so he gets nervous and gets up everytimes we talk. So, how do i get 2 know him a little more> and how do i make the relationship work?
2006-12-27 11:46:14 · 7 answers · asked by Lil Beauty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u gotta make sure he feels Comfortable. he gets nervous?? that's not a good sign. he needs to see u as someone he can Trust, have Fun with, etc. :) so, why don't u guys do some Activities first.. like, miniature golfing, movies, etc. just spend time together having a good time..even when it's quiet, if u can feel comfortable, guys really appreciate that. my ex used to be so amazed that we could lay on the phone for hours, and practically fall asleep w/o speaking for a long time.. he said he felt so comfortable with me :).
also, ask him some questions, but start slow. just go to the mall, window shop, go hey do u play this video game? or this shirt looks liek urs! joke around, be more playful. just see how he responds. eventually if u can't get him to open up, u might want to look into just hanging out w/ guy friends first, and becoming bf/gf w/ someone who u really get along with and can talk to
2006-12-27 11:54:57 · answer #1 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will say what everybody else did. COMMUNICATE! It is goingto be hard at first, but practice makes perfect!!! It is natural to be nervous at first, but you will get over it. Start off with the phone. It is easier than looking at him in person. Don't worry it will all work out. ask his favorite food, color, restaraunt, band, genre of music, subject, sport, etc. Those are just a few things. Good luck!
2006-12-27 19:56:15 · answer #2 · answered by Meg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is ur boyfriend, then why is he walking off on u everytime u start talking to eachother? try talking to him on the internet and maybe he won't get so nervous...soon he should start feeling more comfortable around you...just wait a while.
have fun:D
2006-12-27 19:49:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all u should always start on a (good) conversation. Keep him interested. Lie a bit if you have 2. But don't go overboared. So he doesn't ask you more about it. Learn more about what he likes to. So if you ever go somewhere with him you'll take him somewhere that'll surprise him. ....... well good luck in your relationship! :)
2006-12-27 19:52:37 · answer #4 · answered by jucee94 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty and lots of communication.
You're really gonna have to start communicating more.
2006-12-27 19:49:50 · answer #5 · answered by Radagast97 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him loads of questions about him
2006-12-27 19:48:50 · answer #6 · answered by ixlinxs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gonna be hard if you never talk...
2006-12-27 19:48:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋