My boyfriend keeps his fon w/him all the time, if his fon is on the table he'll grab it and take it w/him, even if we r at home. i feel he is hiding something. i've asked him and he gets mad. we had a big fight bout this and it realy bothers and i'm tired of it.
2006-12-27 11:42:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ahh if it's something new thats he's doin, like if he never cared before and now all the sudden he's taking it with him, i would so be curious too.. i would try to act like i was sleeping and when i knew for sure i would get up and take his phone and make sure the ringer is off take it to the bathroom and check it.. look at names and see if theres one name that just doesn't click and if you do find one, write the number down and call it from somewhere that no one knows or that *67 then the number and see who answers.. other then that i would just act like you don't care anymore and see if that bothers him, and if it doesn't then something just might be wrong.. lie and say your goin out and that you wont be back til way late and have a friend switch you cars and just spy on him, follow him and all that and when you call him and ask him what he's doin and says he's layin down and is actually in the car in front of you then you know you have to leave him.. dont' sit there and explain why, just leave.. he doesn't deserve to hurt you anymore then he already has.. good luck and best wishes! hope you have a happy new year!
2006-12-27 11:50:37 · answer #1 · answered by ~broken~ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not sure how long you have been with this boyfriend, but this sounds like a big problem, if they do not answer their phone in front of you, or dont feel safe with you, they are definately hiding something, i would take this as a sign you are only allowed certain parts of him,,now your challenge is can you enjoy a fellow who is has hidden parts of his life, i would be concerned, many fish in the sea,,honesty and trust are the hallmarks of a good relationship
2006-12-27 11:46:02 · answer #2 · answered by nurseynursey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you feel he's hiding something than he probably is. Trust your instincts. If he wasn't this protective of his cell phone before then something is probably up. The last thing a potential cheater doesn't want is for you to find out the truth before they can tell you.
Food for thought; it's too easy to switch out sim cards and memory of cell phones nowadays. Hint hint.
2006-12-27 11:54:57 · answer #3 · answered by NyteWing 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he gets mad about a question like that, then I would think he was hiding something too---and I would wonder if the relationship was worth keeping going.
2006-12-27 11:45:27 · answer #4 · answered by donnabellekc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're tired of it,dump him.Dont put up with it.My boyfriend takes his phone everywhere too but I got it from him one day and it didnt have anything on it.Could be the same case with your boyfriend.
2006-12-27 11:47:03 · answer #5 · answered by juicyontheeyes 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He must sleep sometime...if you wonder...there is your opprotunity...BUT...if you do not have a natural trust in your relationship, it may be time for you to consider ending it, as you are only in for a sad future if you stay with it.
2006-12-27 11:46:13 · answer #6 · answered by catywhumpass 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do the same thing...mostly cos I have the net on my phone and if i am bored a second I can check the news and such...plus when my other girlfriend texts me dirty stuff my "gf", aka my warm place to stick it, wont know!
2006-12-27 11:47:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
dont let it get to you but if he spends less time with you then you might want to think about moving on, dont look for trouble it will only drive you crazy
2006-12-27 11:47:44 · answer #8 · answered by SONNY_D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well dont ask him why he takes it with him all the time but tell him that it bothers you... you cant really do much and dont suspect him cause its like you dont trust him
2006-12-27 11:45:09 · answer #9 · answered by Jackie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you are't the only one he is seeing, and if the other woman calls him he doesn't want u to know. he is cheating on u, and wants to keep it secret until he is sure about the other woman.
2006-12-27 11:49:30 · answer #10 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋