This guy is my first true love, the father of my son and my best friend. I don't know how to let go even though he is seeing someone else. What is the best thing to do?
2006-12-27 11:40:26 · 20 answers · asked by jaydonsmom9905 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
honestly there's no easy way of getting over someone u once loved. sometimes u can't unlove them. they stay in ur heat forever. but try to take ur mind of that person. whatever u do don't jump in to any fast relationships. that will make it harder in u. so just take the pain. it will soon go away.
2006-12-27 11:46:14 · answer #1 · answered by Margaret W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-05 22:05:36 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what is right for the sake of your son. If he is cheating on you now, you will always have a part of you that will distrust him, and that will not make a happy marraige, nor a happy home for your son. Remember, it was HIS choice to throw away your love and your son's love for someone else. It will hurt now, but will lessen in time. Get involved in activities with your son outside the home, go to the library together, the movies or even go walking.......
2006-12-27 11:44:15 · answer #3 · answered by debi_0712 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the same situation right now. I don't talk to her unless it has something to do with my son otherwise don't wright don't call and leave me alone. It's not worth putting yourself though everything like I did. In the end nothing will change and you will just get hurt even more.
2006-12-27 11:44:11 · answer #4 · answered by matthiggins86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get on with your life. Unfortunately, nothing is guaranteed in this life. Concentrate on work is the best medicine and be open to a new friend if he comes along.
2006-12-27 11:46:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby girl, there is no easy way. you just need to live your own life now. go and do things that you want to do. yeah, your love for him will still be there, but you need to focus you attention on something else. he'd moved on and so should you. once you concentrate on something else, the intensity of your love for him will get dimmer. go out there and have fun.
2006-12-27 11:49:52 · answer #6 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would recommend for you to go out with your friends and start meeting new people. Going out on dates to like, eat, movies, clubs, bars stuff like that. That would help to get your mind off of him and what hes doing... Good luck!!
Worked for me!
2006-12-27 11:44:57 · answer #7 · answered by big.daddy83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will never get over him,its 22years and i still think of him all the time and yes i have re married ,but life goes on
2006-12-27 11:46:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't get over them. You just tuck them away in that special place in your heart and move on. Baby steps at first.
Good luck to you.
2006-12-27 11:44:03 · answer #9 · answered by NyteWing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you probably will never get over him per se but you will move on. A good cry, a pint of Ben and Jerry's, a makeover, enjoy you!!!
2006-12-27 11:44:33 · answer #10 · answered by heatherhedyjon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋