well.. me and my boyfriend are on a break because we had a aguement and iv pulled thing off so i cn have time to myself because i was so upset! and im still not to sure if i want to get back with him becuase of this! i love him but i think i dnt wanna be with him beacuse iv started to talk to this guy online and i cnt stop thinking of him now!? do u think im just trying to find someone els so i cn stop thinking of my boyfriend? or maby i should leave my boyfriend? please someone help!!!! im confused
2006-12-27 11:31:29 · 16 answers · asked by Erin R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
whats this on a break crap...stop being a tease and tell him its over so both of you can move on with your lives
2006-12-27 11:35:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well of course you're confused...you're complicating your life even further by putting more stuff in front before you've sorted out what's behind.
I think the way you're behaving isn't very mature at all. At least have the decency to sort one relationship out before trying to start another. You ask for help & advice...just put yourself in the role of the Guy you've temporarily broken up from...would you be happy if he were already chatting to some Girl on-line while supposedly sorting out the situation between you both. You did after-all say you were on a break..not broken up....perhaps you should break-up first..then you're free to do whatever you want.
Let the Guy go Sweetie...you clearly don't give two hoots about him. Be honest with yourself & let him get on with his life where he can find someone else as well. it's only fare after-all...don't ya think?
2006-12-27 21:54:00 · answer #2 · answered by Funky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have it right your confused. What was the argument with your boyfriend about? How long were the two of you dating and what was invested in the relationship? I don't think I would make any moves yet until you talk things out with your boyfriend.
This other guy is someone you have talked to on-line? What do you really know about him? Only that which he has chosen to tell you, which at this point could all be a pack of lies. Slow down, take it easy and figure things out with time.
2006-12-27 19:37:59 · answer #3 · answered by It's been awhile 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
erin STOP right there . do you honestly think that this guy you met on the net is gonna be as nice and caring as your boyfriend . i met someone on the net before and met up with them . they looked nothing like what they said they did . just watch what you are doing babes and have a good long think about it . Take care and all the best for 07 whatever happens . oh did i mention i am single lol oh i forgot to ask did this argument you had with your boyfriend happen because you wanted to be single to meet this guy .
2006-12-27 20:06:47 · answer #4 · answered by bob a builder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u know , for me the break of time is just a delay of ending it ! i never believed much in the " give me some time to think " or "lets have a break "
most of the times it means that its over because there are some serious problems
so for ur and ur bf sake end it , the is no point and as u said , u r already thinking of someone else !
best wishes !
2006-12-28 05:29:41 · answer #5 · answered by athina68 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm i think you arer trying to get over your boyfriend and you are doing a good job. thinking about another guy is a good start. you should leave your bf if he upset u that much trust me its better. he s gonna do it again if you forgive him. i know for sure because my boyfriend did the same thing. i didnt end it cuz i loved him too much at that time. you have to put this boyfriend in the past and put an effort to build a relationship with this new guy.
2006-12-27 19:35:52 · answer #6 · answered by hippiegurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u r trying 2 stop thinking about your bf because you r mad at him. i'm sure u really love him and u want 2 get back with him but u r just too mad right now so u r using this other guy as some kind of escape. i'm sure u and your bf will get back 2gether and u will 4get about this whole thing.i hope this help
2006-12-27 19:36:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you are talking to that guy online because you are tired with the way things are going in your relationship.. not that you dont' want to be with your b/f but just somethings off and you are bored or angry.. i dont' know.. i wouldn't go for a guy online, you don't know who they really are or how they will act or look.. if you have something good and you love him, wouldn't you fight for something like that???? i would cause i love my man and i dont' want anyone but him and my interest's to even be with another man don't ever cross my mind.. he's everything i want and need! good luck and best wishes! hope you have a very happy new year!
2006-12-27 19:36:06 · answer #8 · answered by ~broken~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should try and patch things up with your boyfreind and try and fix the proplem but if that dose not work then you should go with the other man you meet online. Hope you make the right decision.
2006-12-27 19:37:30 · answer #9 · answered by Masta B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One word: rebound.
Your bloke deserves to know that it's over if that's what you want.
Your new bloke should proceed with caution because this could all turn out to be a rebound thing and everyone ends up hurt!
Be sure, be careful and be yourself.
good luck
xxx
2006-12-27 19:55:41 · answer #10 · answered by Fay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not confused. You know what you want to do. You are just using us as an excuse to save facing up to what you already know. Have the courage of your own convictions and Good Luck.
2006-12-27 19:38:13 · answer #11 · answered by dawleymouse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋