People think it's nuts! Which it is, when someone is 12 and the other 19. But what about when he's 27 and you're 20. Is it really gonna matter?
2006-12-27 11:26:48 · 9 answers · asked by shoo-bop. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It really depends on the people in the relationship, some can make it work. The person who is 20 may be at a different stage in their life than the one who is 27. The 20 year old may be in college going for a degree, while the 27 year old may already have a solid job. The 27 year old may be considering a potential life partner. The two could be in love and get through any obstacles that they are faced with but their lives are at different points. Real love is what will make a relationship get through even the most extreme differences. If the two can work together than I don't see what is so wrong.
2006-12-27 11:34:29 · answer #1 · answered by confused soul 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
of course 12 to 19 is nuts, the development of the two people is incredibly different, one's been through puberty and the other just started it...but 20 to 27 isnt as bad, both are grown adults
2006-12-27 11:30:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. when your 12 you still have to go to high school and ur probably in the 7th grade. You don't really understand what love is. I know when I was in 7th grade the only thing i wanted was to get laid. If the guy is 19 and he is going for a 12 years old then he should be shot. When you are 27 going for a 20 year old then you both know what love is. you both probably know what it feels like to loose someone. When your 12 you haven't had a chance to experence alot of things. If you are 12 turst me you have your whole life to date older guys. date guys ur age and who understand you.
2006-12-27 11:33:44 · answer #3 · answered by matthiggins86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl don't worry about it.
if you are over 18 there's nothing to fret about.
if you like him and he likes you who or what is going to stop you.
don't listen to what people or statistics say.
if he doesn't care neither should you.
those people aren't living your life for you you are.
they are not the ones who will live with the result if you break up
with him becuse of what they thought.
screw them
have fun. you're only 20. there are lots of people out there in the
world,
Live your life to your happiness!
GOOD LUCK
good luck
2006-12-27 11:42:17 · answer #4 · answered by citygirl18 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well since the legal age is 18 anything younger could spend a few years in jail being someones lil girl
2006-12-27 11:32:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea but u r not and u should be in college at 20 and she should have a career
2006-12-27 11:32:33 · answer #6 · answered by city 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it is not going to matter when you are both over 20 --- my lady is MUCH younger than i am and its working
2006-12-27 11:30:30 · answer #7 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it matter one is legal and the other isn't
2006-12-27 11:34:35 · answer #8 · answered by Fruitful1 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hell yea it does he isnt in this for love he is in it for sex and plus thats dangerous and even if he loves her and looking at jail time
2006-12-27 11:32:29 · answer #9 · answered by chris 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋