2006-12-27 11:25:29 · 13 answers · asked by emily 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him you don't and see how he reacts. If he keeps pushing you, it would seem he's more interested in what he can get out of the relationship than having something that's good for both of you. Whatever you do, don't sleep with him, I can pretty much guarantee you'll be sorry if you do.
2006-12-27 11:29:40 · answer #1 · answered by Rossonero NorCal SFECU 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, there really is no 'time' to start sleeping together. It's up to you, plain and simple. You need to set the boundaries in your relationship, especially regarding your own sexuality. If you don't want to, then he will have to respect that.
Of course, he may not like that answer, and he may pressure you into caving in. He may even push the issue as an ultimatum: my way or the highway. Again, you'll have to decide if he's worth the compromise. If he's that concerned about himself and concerned so little about what you want, you just might want to look for someone less selfish.
Finally, consider that there might be a middle ground that you let both of you be happy, i.e., not going 'all the way'. Keep in mind, many people might do better doing nothing rather than going half-way and stopping.
2006-12-27 11:37:28 · answer #2 · answered by Brian S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER let any guy try to persuade you to do something you don't want to do. Just say NO. If he really loves and respects you he will accept your feelings. If he dosent then just dump him.
2006-12-27 11:36:38 · answer #3 · answered by cotoneaster 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he can't wait until you are ready you need to tell me to move on. You are to precious to give your gift away to some guy who won't appreciate it. He want appreciate because he is not willing to wait on you. You deserve better move on and let him go.
2006-12-27 11:41:42 · answer #4 · answered by gurly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't want to, tell him no. if he gets angry about it, then he's not the right guy for you. leave him and find a guy who will treat you right and not force you to do something you don't want to do.
2006-12-27 11:29:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
say what you put in ( ) to him.......believe me it's better to talk at first because, then it's gonna be harder and maybe he'll think other thing
2006-12-27 11:40:40 · answer #6 · answered by εϊз FrEsA c0n VoDkA εϊз 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is he old enough to get a job and raise your child that he may impregnate you with?
If not, tell him to get lost!
2006-12-27 11:27:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't really want to, don't. You'll regret it if you do.
2006-12-27 11:27:51 · answer #8 · answered by SelfGrill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say, "Okay let's give it a try."
2006-12-27 11:28:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him u dont want to cuz ur allergic to his d**k cuz it stinks or smthing!!
2006-12-27 11:36:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋