I think they are joking... what is the correct response? Should I come clean and tell them that I am actually a man and so, legally, cannot marry them?
2006-12-27 11:22:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not really a bloke, was only kidding.
Do I say yes or no to him?
2006-12-27 11:28:31 · update #1
You could do THAT MIGHT JUST HELP! or you could politely decline and still pretend to be a woman so he can go to bed happy tonight!
2006-12-27 11:24:38 · answer #1 · answered by JackLove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love him (boy or girl/women or man) then you say yes
if you dont then you say no
what you need too remeber is that marriage is a committment too be with someone forever are you ready for such a committment if not but you love this bloke ask him if hed be willing too get enaged firt
are you liveing together because for the next 50 or so yrs if ur married thats what you will be doing
do you or dont you want children another question you have too ask yourself...
what im trying too say is marriage is a big decision and a life changeing one if your not sure or not ready before its late ask yourself these question weigh up the pro and cons in ur mind then and only then make up your mind too say yes or no.
lastly if its any help search for all the answers inside urself find out how you truly feel about this mandoes he make you happy can he make you smile does he comfort you when ur sad or down and could you do the same for him even when his old and grey..only you can answer yes or no because it is ur life that you are giveing to him for better or worse richer and poorer and in sickness and health..marriage is a tough one goodluck with whatever decision you come too..but make sure its what you both want otherwise it will not work...
2006-12-27 22:54:29 · answer #2 · answered by mitch 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A guy would ask you to marry him so that you will become his 24 hour sex slave and cleaner of the dishes.
Say yes, it is a woman's destiny...
2006-12-27 19:51:52 · answer #3 · answered by Gilligan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the guy is looking for someone to share their life and i think it is very wrong to not let them know once the relationship starts to let them know you are a guy
2006-12-27 19:28:41 · answer #4 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait till after the wedding to tell him, you guys will laugh the whole honeymoon and can split the presents
2006-12-27 19:34:22 · answer #5 · answered by mr s 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Say no. Tell him that you want to protect your soul from being devoured by marriage.
2006-12-27 23:16:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Might be better to show him your credentials first Hun...
2006-12-27 20:04:04 · answer #7 · answered by Funky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
. . . tell them the truth, there's nothing wrong with being a blow-up doll . . .
2006-12-27 19:25:55 · answer #8 · answered by Astra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're a cross-dresser??? cool!
sorry it just reminds me of the plots of ooh so many shonen ai webcomics....
2006-12-27 19:27:15 · answer #9 · answered by fae 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋