There's this guy. And i really liked him. And he told me that he really really liked me and i told him i liked him too. And i went on vacation. So i came back and he had asked out someone else. This is the second time this has happened to me. I dont get it. Why does it happen to me?
2006-12-27 11:05:46 · 14 answers · asked by Karen Smith 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Also, how do i keep from constantly getting taken advantage of?
2006-12-27 11:12:22 · update #1
b/c your actions are not followed up behind your words. All you told him was that you liked him but did you do anything to show that you felt that way?
2006-12-27 11:08:50 · answer #1 · answered by beauty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go on a vacation next time. Telling someone you like them right before you leave is a VERY BAD IDEA. 99% of the time, the other person moves on.
2006-12-27 11:10:14 · answer #2 · answered by LaissezFaire 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think, from what you have said, that when you declare your feelings to the guy you like, you leave afterwards, right? Well, I think the guy thinks that you didn't mean what you said and are trying to run away from what you have said, OR the guy thinks, after he has said he likes you too, you get scared and run out of the relationship. My advice: Put yourself in the guys' eyes. Be more senditive to what he is feeling and how your actions are affecting him.
2006-12-27 11:16:35 · answer #3 · answered by Hunter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm guessing you're what??? 15 years old. Guys don't know what they want at that age. It probably isn't you, but you left and someone else came along in the meantime. Next time you profess your love, stick around...or do it when you get back.
2006-12-27 11:09:08 · answer #4 · answered by duvalicious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe because you didnt show initiative , you should have told him you wanted to date him when you got back from vacation , but you didnt so he went out with someone else
2006-12-27 11:08:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he is an attention whore, so he moves from person to person, till he gets the attention he craves. He is probably a horrible boyfriend. Players only love you when they're playin.
2006-12-27 11:11:40 · answer #6 · answered by jamielee1205 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesnt just happen to you it happen to me three time but i just kept trying i even told him i liked him will he was dating my best friend
good luck and keep trying
2006-12-27 11:09:24 · answer #7 · answered by chris 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds more like he wanted something from you and did not like you as much as he claimed. Could it be that you are crushing on the wrong kind of guys?
2006-12-27 11:08:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very simple, he's not into you or he's a flake or a player. Move on there are other guys out there for you.
2006-12-27 11:08:17 · answer #9 · answered by Believe me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a bit of a challenge while still keeping him interested.
2006-12-27 11:07:40 · answer #10 · answered by ftz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋