Why does my ex.............................?

Question

Evrerytime I see him in the hallway,he always licks his lips at me,or he just stares at me weird.He says he doesnt like me anymore,but,then,why does he do this stuff? I am 12 years old,and he is 13,could he do anything bad to me?I am scarred to death of him,because he is twice my size! What should I do? Ia m afraid to tell a teacher,because they wont believe me!

I flip him off in the hallway,but he still does it!

Answer 1

Just ignore him. However, if you feel threatened you need to speak to an adult.

Answer 2

As someone said before me, a teacher should believe you... tell a teacher that you trust, and who is responsible, and will do something about it. The boy seems like a jerk... and like the other person also said, walk a different way... (I was going to say both of these things... but she said it better :-)) Good luck, and tell SOON! Tell anybody: parents/teachers... people will listen because it's not right... that's sexual harrassment, and you both are still underage... so the adults will definitely do something about it. Just make sure you don't back down, or his immature behavior will continue, and he may just do something soon... GOOD LUCK!
And I'm sure you don't want to be scarred by this creep... who cares if he likes you? If you don't like him, and you're AFRAID, and not flattered, let the adults deal with it... This guy follows me and does stuff, and I didn't tell, and I get scared whenever I see him now... it's awful... so if you get it done soon, it's better :-)

Answer 3

What in the world is a 12 year old doing with a ex???

You are WAY too young to be dating. You should NOT date or see a boy who is older than you (even one year older) until you are 17 or 18.

He is trying to make you uncomfortable. He's being obnoxious and immature (he's only 13). It is working perfectly you are histerical and acting like an 8 yr old. This is why 12 and 13 yr olds should not be "dating" They are not emotionally mature enough to handle it.

You should not "see," or "date" a boy until you are 16 - old enough to drive yourself home from a crappy date if something goes wrong. Alternately, your parents could drive you and your "date" to the movies and chaperone your behavior.

Here is how you handle the problem: When he acts like a jerk, ignore him. Look right through him. Don't acknowledge his presence. Don't talk to him. Don't look at him. Don't pass him notes. Don't tell your little friends to tell him to stop. Don't show him that you care about what he does. Don't give him the satisfaction of having a reaction to his behavior.

He'll get the message and find someone else to torment.

Answer 4

I am 12 too and in that EXACT situation. There is this guy at my school that is like that and he won't stop. I usually just ignore him, try to stay away from him or sometimes if he is really driving me insane I will do the same things back. After a while he will get tired of doing these things to you and stop. Hope I helped. Good luck and now that I am here and am in the same situation.

Answer 5

Do not let him scare you. Boys tend to act silly in the presence of girls. What you need to do is not to hang around him if he is trying to scare and making you feel uncomfortable . Hang around friends you feel comfortable with, friends you could have fun with and who do not scare you. And never stay alone with him . When he does this to you in the future, tell him to stop and that you don't like it and you would tell a teacher if keeps doing it. Make sure you are not alone when you do this. And you should not be having a boyfriend anyway. You only 13. Give yourself time to grow up.

Answer 6

Ignore him!!! Just act like he isn't there and don't go anywhere alone. Stay with a group of girls at all times. Tell a teacher - one that you trust. Don't ever be afraid to tell an adult. If one doesn't believe you, go to another! That is what they are there for! Don't wait for something bad to happen. Trust your instincts!!!

Answer 7

He is just showing off and likes feeling in control and powerful. When you see him just act normal, stare straight ahead, hold you head up high and walk right past him like you are better than him. He is probably just trying to play with your head....don't let him have that kind of control on you. STRONG WOMEN UNITE!!!

If you are ever scared of your safety go talk to the school counselor....I promise you they will believe you.

Answer 8

A teacher WOULD believe you!
He does this for your reaction. Try not to let it bother you. He is your EX he is trying to make you nervous, and give him a lot of thought.
Guys are jerks. Avoid seeing him in the hallway. Take different routs.....
Best Wishes!!

Answer 9

He does that stuff because he DOES like you. Boys are weird like that. Just ignore him, but if continues and you still feel scared then tell your parents or even your counselor.

Answer 10

Just watch your back, but my guess he is doing that to make you want him again so he knows you want him (male ego thing) he doesn't want to be with you, but he wants you to want him to be with you. Just be careful, have a friend with you if you are truley afraid and if it does get worse tell someone!!!! This is more extreme, but how are rapists and molesters supposed to get caught so they don't do it anymore if no one tells on them? So be careful and just ignore him.

Answer 11

hes a sad fool!hes just showing off!you should tell someone though!maybe not a teacher,an older bro are someone!they could scare that fool off!