How quickly can you tell if a man is strong or weak? Before he opens his mouth? Is his presence enough for you to know?
What's something a guy did that made you realize that he was a boy and not a man? Or that a regular guy did that made you realize that this is a powerful dude?
2006-12-27 10:20:26 · 25 answers · asked by ftz 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The way he holds himself, carries himself, and the way he addresses, or speaks to a lady thats how you can tell a real man........but the thing i noticed that makes certain guys look like boys is when they hunch their shoulders with their hands in their pockets, almost hiding behind a friend, like their friend is a crutch for them to prop them up like a wimp afraid to stand on his own two feet......now the guy who deals with his friends with confidence, and says what he means dosent mince his words or pretty things up to save face, but says what he means with conviction, and expresses himself to the full so that there are no misunderstandings in the first place....has my vote as a man.
2006-12-27 10:32:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
it defently has to be the way that he carries himself
also just remember just because a person looks strong on the outside does not mean he is strong inside. for me you can usualy see the real man in his eyes.
the eyes are the window to the soul after all.
one thing a guy did to make me realize that he was not a man was cheat on me that is not what a real man does boys do that.
and i would have to say you have to admire a man that comes to your aide someone that is there for you no matter what even if it is just to have a shoulder to cry on thats a powerful man if you have a kind heart you have all the power you will ever need
2006-12-27 18:32:37 · answer #2 · answered by tealee 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Confidence definitly comes out strong on ANYBODY! If you're talking about physical things that make a man look strong...Id say a woman first notices his body type.And theres not really a way you can find out if he is strong or weak just by looking at him.Thats why they say dont judge a book by its cover ;) But you can sure have a good start to making yourself look strong. Something that a man has told me that has made me see him as a strong man is the things he has overcome and done. Not beating up somebody or working in construction, but something meaningful. :)
2006-12-27 18:26:01 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ Loving My Babyboy ;) ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A man holds doors open, pulls out chairs for ladies, is clean and well groomed, looks you in the eye. He doesn't have to say a word. But when he does talk, I want him to be articulate and knowledgeable. He pays for going out and does not expect his date to pay. All of the above demonstrate power to me.
A boy uses slang and bad language, has no manners and dresses like a boy. Has no job and doesn't pay his way.
2006-12-27 18:31:20 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i first noticed my current boyfriend, i noticed: his muscles immediately, and then his eyes. his eyes are a really pretty mixture of blue and gray.
they [his eyes] were strong and confident---even before he said anything, i knew that he was strong; his eyes somehow said that. in just seconds i knew he was strong.
yes, his presence is enough for me to know.
my boyfriend's almost a man, i hate to say it, but it's true. he has a tendency to get into trouble, yet at times he can be grown up. so i don't know, he's half way there.
2006-12-27 18:41:12 · answer #5 · answered by K.D. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Controlling men are weak, insecure little boys.
Strong men are not afraid to be gentle.
I knew a muscular, macho man who yelled at the people behind us in a movie when their kids were kicking our seats, tried to get them thrown out, and threatened to beat up the dad when he tried to apologize to me.
Weak.
I also knew a man who performed the Heimlich maneuver on a stranger in a restaurant where we were eating, and saved his life.
Strong.
That same man sent me flowers after our first date, on which I turned down his suggestion that I sleep over. Super-strong, confident, masculine. Wow.
2006-12-27 18:23:53 · answer #6 · answered by Bad Kitty! 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I notice his shoulders and arms and his chest, if his shoulders are straight and strong he is tuff, if his arms dont look like toothpicks he is strong, and his chest has pecks (not breasts) he is strong. If show me how strong u r then i will think ur a real man, but if all u do is try and prove ur stregth, like tryin to lift anything at anytime or all of a sudden u want to arm wrestle i will think ur a dickless asshole.
2006-12-27 18:28:44 · answer #7 · answered by one tuff babe 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't know unless you can read minds. I feel by the way they speak, carry themselves, or even personal grooming should be a first impression. You never get a second chance at a first impression. If he never spoke and you're going off body language, that can throw one off the course. I feel all men are boys and they never grow up.
2006-12-27 18:28:23 · answer #8 · answered by GreenIce10 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It helps if they guy is bigger than the girl or woman. If he is taller and heavier that is a good sign that he is strong at least in her eyes. Don't try too hard to prove your strength, you could hurt your back and be out of commision for a while.
2006-12-27 18:24:32 · answer #9 · answered by MsFancy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I noticed many things about my husband before I married him. I am an attractive former model and actress and even with my husband, I still get hit on. My husband is a "man" he will stand up for me and do whatever to do to state my honour.
My husband is very powerful individual...you can't mess with him! I feel like he is my bear..bears are strong and they will fight to the finish!
2006-12-27 18:26:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋