well there is this guy I like
and he likes but he wont say anything
and whenever he tries to tell me my friends
come and talk with me
WHAT SHOULD I DO?
PLEASE HELP!
is he sure he lilkes me or is it just PUPPY LOVE?
2006-12-27 09:49:57 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think he really likes you. why don't you ask him out?
2006-12-27 09:52:12 · answer #1 · answered by Shanan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys are just really shy, and you have to be a little patient with him. So what if it's puppy love?? You can still have a good time with him, and it will be fun for the both of you to discover one another. Have you considered giving him some hints? You don't have to club him over the head with these hints--there are subtle ways to get your point across.....like touching him more (in an ever so slightly suggestive way), and by giving him compliments (men love that!!). What have you got to lose? Go for it!
2006-12-27 09:56:27 · answer #2 · answered by lucitienne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i were you, i would try to talk to him alone. Maybe ask him for his myspace or im screename and see how much you can get to know him personaly before this issue is discused. And if you have a problem with your friends coming into your conversations, perhaps you should talk with them alone and explain to them that you would like to speak with him alone. I am sure they would understand.
At the end of your question you asked "is he sure he likes me or it is just puppy love"
My reply is this: Isnt puppy love, what comes after liking somone? I think i would say that this is more like... puppy like.. than puppy love.
For future refrances let me key something in for you... love.. is not a feeling. Its an action. If a guy love you he doesnt just tell you, though if he does, than he should tell you. But love is alot more, love is him showing kindness to you, gentelness to you. And treating you like the person that you deserve to be treated.
2006-12-27 09:59:14 · answer #3 · answered by Muscleman2007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything for a little while and see what the outcome will be, you seem pretty young and so does he. This may be puppy love for both of you. If he really like you, he will be telling you soon, Hope you have a happy new years and God bless you..
2006-12-27 10:00:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be puppy love, Why are all your friends all ways there when he comes around, Maybe he comes around because your friends are there?He maybe just looking for the company of you and all your friends, You need to get him alone and ask him, the only way you will know for sure, good luck.
2006-12-27 09:59:31 · answer #5 · answered by larry B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK; I'm gonna give you some sound advice.
When the guy comes to talk to you and your friends start talking, just say "Everyone Quiet! I want to hear what this guy has to say".
Then everyone look at him and see if he has the confidence to ask you out. If he does, he's a keeper.
2006-12-27 09:56:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First and foremost, STOP your friends from interrupting. Tell them this is private time and to respect your privacy. If they keep jumping in each time he tries to communicate with you, you'll never know what his feelings are.
I'm sorry...I noticed you asked for the men, but I just had to respond.
2006-12-27 10:00:29 · answer #7 · answered by Mike's Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your friends stopped you from having the conversation with him that's gonna push him away. It shows they're more important. If you want to know make time you and him can both meet without interuptions. someplace comfortable and easy going. He may be either really shy or it's not ment to be.
2006-12-27 09:55:47 · answer #8 · answered by Shannon A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you need to ask your friends to give you an afternon off. Only way to know is by him telling you he likes you or not so sneak him your phone number or your myspace page or something and let him know you are willing to let him in a little.
2006-12-27 09:52:33 · answer #9 · answered by ADragonsGoddess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you. Going thru friends is a security blanket so that he can't get turned down by you directly.
It works well in social environments where his friends might make fun of him for getting rejected.
2006-12-27 09:52:10 · answer #10 · answered by Cameron L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should ask him if you could teach me how to drive stick,or even the old whole in the bottom of the popcorn at the movies.
2006-12-27 09:52:27 · answer #11 · answered by makaveli0979 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋