Okay...I know Im annoying with all the questions but anywho...I was wondering for the male population as a whole if physical attraction is more important then one's personality, that is when it comes to relationships and flings?
2006-12-27 09:34:39 · 17 answers · asked by shelby 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There needs to be a balance of both. Of course the initial attraction is physical because you do not know the person's personality yet. Although sometimes you like a person after meeting them in the usual course of your day (say at a restaurant or coffee shop). In most cases I would say the physical comes first but does not mean there isn't anything more than that in the long run. Women who have a great body but no brains get boring. Sure the sex can be great but it will be much greater if you and the person are in tune mentally as well as physically.
2006-12-27 09:47:04 · answer #1 · answered by bulletman92002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really have to have both for a relationship. Without the attraction it will just be a friendship. And only a guy with low self esteem will stay with a beautiful woman who is ugly inside. As for flings/one night stands I think both parties only care about attraction.
2006-12-27 09:45:23 · answer #2 · answered by wilierthanu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This has got to be the easist question if anyone answers it honestly,..
Okay,. wait,. anyone whos above 20ish and has been in more than one serious relationship that is...
FACT!!!
Looks get you in the door,... personality keeps you there...
anyone who says different is selling something, guy or girl
you don't SEE personality,.. first impresssion is physical attraction,. whether that be someone that is smoking,.. okay,. .or people look at you strange for thinking is good looking,.. its different for everyone,. its called taste
once you get close to someone,.. at some point,... the looks are going to be overshadowed by the personality,.. and that my friends determines how long it lasts.... (which is why the US has a divorce rate of above 50%,... too many people not waiting for the personality to be noticed :) )
2006-12-27 09:42:40 · answer #3 · answered by Z 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
physical attraction does have a play when getting into things, but personality keeps the relationship going.
2006-12-27 09:37:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The physical attraction gets our attention but it's the personality that keeps us around!
2006-12-27 09:45:09 · answer #5 · answered by chosen37 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
physical attraction is what usually syarts things, but in the end it is the mental, and emotional sideof things that will make it last, and will make a relationship good or bad. If you can find yourself attracted to someone that you can get along with well, and you both want the same things... you've probably won...hope that helped.
2006-12-27 09:38:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
For me the most important thing is personality, but i would STRONGLY prefer to be somewhat physically attracted to that person as well. It just makes everything more enjoyable.
2006-12-27 09:38:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To begin with of course the physical, but that only last long enough to open your mouth then you have to have a personality of some kind.
2006-12-27 09:38:50 · answer #8 · answered by wofford914 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my friend they are two separate things...if I was looking to be in a relationship I would most definately have to say personality, because you have to be with someone you mesh with...but if it was a fling i was after...its physical attraction without question!
2006-12-27 09:37:47 · answer #9 · answered by OPTIMUS DIME 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Truthfully for me, physical attraction starts the process but personality finishes.
The hottest looking girl with a crap personality isn't going too far with me.
2006-12-27 09:37:29 · answer #10 · answered by SolarFanatic 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋